So I chose my profile name as a reminder every log on of what I should be doing a lot more of for people :)
I'm 5'5 155-160 thick and curvy
I am fun and easy going.
I am pretty much happy all the time.
Sarcastic and dry wit.
I appreciate simplicity
I always work on being present in this moment..
I sing really really loud in my kitchen to rock music while doing the dishes.
I really care about people especially kids and homeless kids.
I would do anything for my friends.
I am a musician and classically trained in clarinet, opera (caro mio ben), percussion, some guitar and piano.
I have been a systems analyst/programmer/project manager for 20 years.
I am a court reporter.
I know some polynesian dancing.
I spend my day living a healthy life style...usually.
I love the outdoors and prefer to exercise outside.
I am more of a dive bar/live music person (coach house, steamers, renaissance cafe).
I prefer to read real books and newspapers not books online, and I sometimes still buy CDs.
I am eclectic, have moods of good fun and at times deep pensive thought (I definitely think too much: Eckart Tolle, Adyashanti, Maryann Williamson, Maya Angelou and Winston Churchill).
I am loyal and committed to the people I love.
Iv'e got bits and pieces like everyone else:
I like anything zombie.
I probably am the only girl who hates shopping.
I cuss when I am happy, sad, mad, depressed; but I know when it is not appropriate.
I call people dude...girls, guys, kids, my dog, strangers, friends.
Can't watch the news that stuff will bother me for weeks.
Some things make me ghetto mad...
I got skills.
I like mundane stuff like bowling. I am good for two throws/strikes then all gutter balls.
I like cooking for people.
I make good enchiladas.
I am pretty spontaneous and will try something new just doing a drive by...
Other guilty pleasures would be laser tag and squirt guns.
I like carving pumpkins at halloween.
I like to celebrate holidays and life.
I am ambitious and competitive.
My kids and I do sushi a lot...movies....dinner at home...I attend their sport and school activities...regular stuff, they are the most important part of my life.
I like a partner who is smart and/or talented that I respect and learn from who has energy for life; yet, who is not overbearing with superfluous knowledge.
I am not extra smart, I just have to work a lot harder than everyone else to achieve the same result ;)
I have found a good match is someone where I am weak, he is strong and where he is weak; I am strong. Balance. Yin-Yang.
I am more passive, and I don't like conflict.
I believe in chemistry, loyalty and being open to the world around me. I am not likely to be judgmental or tell you what to do. I appreciate wisdom before emotion.
I think how people treat other people is more important than how much money you make, where you live or what kind of car you drive.
I am looking for a relationship
CAVEAT: If you live with your parents, don't work, or barely work or on unemployment, are using old pictures and are unambitious and lazy; I am not interested. If you keep in touch with ex girlfriends step aside. You are not for me. Messaging me "Hello sexy" tells me your here for a hookup so I won't respond. No heavy alcohol or substance abusers.
I want an equal partner. Some of you need to reexamine your own appearance and what you have to offer.
Somewhere casual where we can chat and get to know each other
A silent prayer for all the blessed survivors....
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