So I chose my profile name as a reminder every log on of what I should be doing a lot more of for people :)
I'm 5'5 155-160 thick and curvy
I am fun and easy going.
I am pretty much happy all the time.
Sarcastic and dry wit.
I appreciate simplicity
I always work on being present in this moment..
I sing really really loud in my kitchen to rock music while doing the dishes.
I really care about people especially kids and homeless kids.
I would do anything for my friends.
I am a musician and classically trained in clarinet, opera (caro mio ben), percussion, some guitar and piano.
I have been a systems analyst/programmer/project manager for 20 years.
I am a court reporter.
I know some polynesian dancing.
I spend my day living a healthy life style...usually.
I love the outdoors and prefer to exercise outside.
I am more of a dive bar/live music person (coach house, steamers, renaissance cafe).
I prefer to read real books and newspapers not books online, and I sometimes still buy CDs.
I am eclectic, have moods of good fun and at times deep pensive thought (I definitely think too much: Eckart Tolle, Maryann Williamson, Maya Angelou and Winston Churchill).
I am loyal and committed to the people I love.
Iv'e got bits and pieces like everyone else:
I like anything zombie.
I probably am the only girl who hates shopping.
I cuss when I am happy, sad, mad, depressed; but I know when it is not appropriate.
I call people dude...girls, guys, kids, my dog, strangers, friends.
Can't watch the news that stuff will bother me for weeks.
Some things make me ghetto mad...
I got skills.
I like mundane stuff like bowling. I am good for two throws/strikes then all gutter balls.
I like cooking for people.
I make good enchiladas.
I am pretty spontaneous and will try something new just doing a drive by...
Other guilty pleasures would be laser tag and squirt guns.
I like carving pumpkins at halloween.
I like to celebrate holidays and life.
I am ambitious and competitive.
My kids and I do sushi a lot...movies....dinner at home...I attend their sport and school activities...regular stuff, they are the most important part of my life.
I like a partner who is smart and/or talented that I respect and learn from who has energy for life; yet, who is not overbearing with superfluous knowledge.
I am not extra smart, I just have to work a lot harder than everyone else to achieve the same result ;)
I have found a good match is someone where I am weak, he is strong and where he is weak; I am strong. Balance. Yin-Yang.
I am more passive, and I don't like conflict.
I believe in chemistry, loyalty and being open to the world around me. I am not likely to be judgmental or tell you what to do. I appreciate wisdom before emotion.
I think how people treat other people is more important than how much money you make, where you live or what kind of car you drive.
I am looking for a relationship
CAVEAT: If you live with your parents, don't work, or barely work or on unemployment, are using old pictures and are unambitious and lazy; I am not interested. I want an equal partner.
Somewhere casual where we can chat and get to know each other
A silent prayer for all the blessed survivors....
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