I have changed my profile description several times. After receiving the messages I have received I am changing it yet again. Men say they want the truth. Well I'm going to be honest about what I am and am not looking for. I hope that reading this doesn't make me sound angry or bitter because I'm not. I am a confident, educated, fun middle aged woman that cant believe the disappointment that dating online can be. I am a single mother, full time employee, full time student, competitive bowler and a faneffingtastic human being.
I hear "there was no spark". Do I look like a car battery or an outlet? This isn't a Disney movie or a chick flick on Oxygen. We middle aged people have been married, loved, lost, had kids, made memories and built careers. But yet we are illogical trying to meet someone. After a 2 hour meet at Starbucks you can tell if someone is not dateable? Even job interviews give a second and third meet. Are we supposed to bring references? Photo albums?
All I am asking is to find a man that will get to know me and see where it goes. I am realistic and don't expect anything. Just a descent man with a job and well rounded life. Meaning maybe kids, a close family, goals, adventurous etc. I'm not asking for the world. One would assume I want the moon.
What I am NOT looking for is the man blowing through town visiting friends or family or on a business trip. If you are in need of an escort please try Craigslist. I do not want to cum over and have a good time because you have 10 inches to share. What are we......12? If you live outside the Reno/Sparks area its not going to happen. It's not logical to think distance isn't an issue. It's hard enough getting to know someone.
You want honesty well there it is. That's what I am looking for. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.