I have never been married nor do I have any children. I am VERY rare. I want a man who thinks of me more than just a tool(used by him). I have a mind of my own and if you don't think I do, then you will be in for a rude awakening!! I want a man who understands that a relationship
is TWO people. That means that there will be some listening done by you.... I'm not going to waste yr time, if you are not willing to listen to me then move on.
The hallmark of a christian relationship is unselfishness. I want someone who is interested in who I am.... I finally know what I want, the truth is that I need to let God have his way.. I know he will anyway.. Regardless of what I say....
I want an emotionally available man who is not afraid of his own tears. Yet will defend the people he loves at the drop of a hat.
But just in case you want to know, I'm used to compromising... I see people as being a little better than me...
If you are not a christian, it's a DEALBREAKER... I want a man who sees his woman as more important than his sexual urges.
I care a ton about people...I have a NAMI support group. I also teach WRAP,
which deals with advance directives for those who have a mental health condition.
I am in the business of building people up so.I am one of those people that you should not fear.. One of my spiritual gifts is edification which means building people up... I invite the flawed. within reason of course. At times I question what reason is.... I know so much about mental health conditions I love all
music. Particularly pop and Bon Jovi livin on a prayer--- OK rock and country Good bye Earl-- Dixie chicks, But christian music has my heart.I want someone who is interested in Jesus and the FACT that he forgave our sins.
I really prefer I talk to someone quite a bit b4 the first date. I dislike texting, primarily because you can learn more about a person one on one on the phone..Spontaneity, intonation .. all those personal items that convey feelings. This is also a trial for me because I'm used to typing out how I feel, it's harder for me to tell you how I feel.I prefer to talk on the phone... The first date will likely be at some coffee shop.. I dislike crowds and rush hour anywhere.. Could we please not go to a crowded place??( A little about me)