ok, "Easy Going / Laid Back" just might be code for "Boring" - (ijs...) If I come across one more of these profiles, I'm gonna cry - Be original fellas ... giving the good ones the benefit of the doubt, chances are that you REALLY ARE Easy Going & Laid Back (that's probablly why you're here - to get away from the drama)
Ok, now that we got that out of the way .....
Truth be told, I really wrestle with talking/writing about myself because words are just words ~ and we all know know that actions speak louder than them, but in the honest spirit of being a good sport, here goes .....
..... (in my sexiest, softest voice ......)
Please don't take my kindness for a weakness, and please, Please PLEASE don't sign me up to be apart of your Harem (I Paaas)! I love my God, family & people, and I value my Lord, my family and my close friendships endlessly!!! It is a must that I keep myself surrounded by loving, ambitious, positive, supportive, pro-active out-of-the-box thinkers - people that can bob & weave and not be afraid to test the waters, take a chance and/or challenge something every now and then, especially when someone or something has been wronged. I take Peace over Chaos & Tulips over Roses always ... Please, NO TROUBLE MAKERS or DRAMA KINGS allowed - only strong, God fearing Men who know how to show and receive love & respect ~ only those that know when & how to laugh uncontrollably ~ and only those that are comfortable & confident with putting their guard down. Life is too short to go through peeking over a wall. OMG - FRIENDSHIP is KEY!!! (Now, if we find that we can share comfortable silences together, that's just icing on the cupcake!) Need you to know when it's time to have my back, take a stand and stick by your folks - and really need you to know that I certainly have yours without the unecessary tests & challenges. As for me, well, I'm kind-of on the shy side, passionate, creative, intuitive, logical, witty, quirky, patient, open-minded, very fair, loyal and trustworthy with a fantastic sense of humor .... I'm a firm believer of treating people the way I want to be treated, and I'm a big advocate of Give & Take Relationships (I'm not in just for the taking). I APPRECIATE & ADORE a man that is done playing games, 'cause "Trix are for Kids" ... those who know what I'm saying, "know EXACTLY what I'm saying!!!"' I'm all for hanging with an Alpha Male, but just be mature and respectful with it and we'll do just fine!
I'm a football and basketball fanatic (youth sports almost every weekend); and I have a very diverse ear in music (I can listen to just about anything you dare to put on). My dream job is to one day start a non-profit organization with my Man that provides the proper tools and charges our youth with pressing-on without becoming discouraged throughout life's perpetual roller coaster ride, .... 'cause we didn't have that type of insight nor direction when we were coming up. Now, if you really wanna get on my good side .... get me to some water on a warm night with a full moon - Maaaaaaan! ;-)
.... Balance & Understanding is currently my life's page.....But what I desire more than anything is to simply be well understood and to take excellent care of my Man & my child as he takes care of us ... and as God watches over us all! ... oh yeah, did I mention, "Friendship is Key"???
I look forward to speaking with you soon....(a girl can only message/text for ohhh so long - I'll be all typed-out - Sorry fellas, not looking for a pen-pal or to increase my typing/texting skills)
By the way, understanding that we ALL have our issues, I don't expect Flawless Fred, because I'm certainly not Perfect Patty ..... However; If you've never been responsible for someone, or if you're married, engaged, or just a plain Bitter Bob - PLEASE JUST PASS ME BY!!!! - otherwise, I'd really love to hear from you soon!!!
Hold-on to God's blessings.
Every date is a first date with me! okay, okay, okay ........... (now that I got a chuckle out of you... )
.......Our 1st Date displays CRAZY chemistry between us! Very few know and understand what chemistry is, I'm not talking sparks and fireworks love american style (or, maybe I am.?.?.?...) I'm simply referring to a mutual, genuine flow and commonality that is equally enjoyed and recipricated between us two ... I'm versatile and the least rigid woman you'll probablly ever meet. It's your call; we can do a sunrise bike-ride along the coast, or a picnic in the Marina. We can catch drinks during a heart pounding football or basketball game, hang-out at an amuzement park (I love roller coasters...as long as I know I'm about to get off soon), / mini-golf / bowling maybe even a round of pool or a cool stroll on the pier or at the Grove. Don't mind hanging with you in church (such an attractive quality to me). I can appreciate a concert or movie in the park on a warm night... and I'm also known to be a homebody that's a great listener as well .... We're good to go .......So, go ahead, take the reigns and set the tone ... and, with all that being said, Let's Go hang, get to know one another & share a laugh or two! - Sorry, really not much of a coffee drinker, but I have no problems compromising if our time and conversation is promising - CHEMISTRY I tell you - it's ALL about our CHEMISTRY!!!!
- Stay Blessed!