Okay so I'm going to try this one more time.
I'm looking for my best friend first. Someone who will go country dancing with me as I'm taking lessons weekly. Maybe go to church with me and do all the other crazy crap I come up with because I found a groupon. Lol! My friends and family are very important to me so you'll have to be okay with "group activities".
I don't need anyone to make me happy or complete me. I'm already happy and have almost everything I've prayed for :) it would be nice to have someone to be completely happy together with.
Anyway I'm a single mom of a teenager, pretty busy with after school activities but I have a fine balance of mommy days out and being the best mom I can.
Ill be honest and up front I can't have any more kids so if that's a deal breaker I understand. If you have 1 or 2 kids that's walking talking and potty trained Ill love them like they are mine.
I have no drama in my life and plan to keep it that way.
I like to laugh, try new things, and meet new people.
I'm a talker so please don't be the quiet type. I'm a good girl and I have my sh*ttogether. ( I know that's a turn off for few of y'all)
Example of what I mean: I've only had 2 driving tickets in my life all happened after I turned 30.
Oh and I'm allergic to cats... No offense I think it's weird when a single man with no kids has a cat anyway.
** update: although the gesture is sweet and I appreciate all emails
If you spell what without an H and replace the A with a U. Your most likely not for me. Don't get me wrong I'm not the best speller in the world and auto text does some funky stuff, but I require my kid to have an intelligent conversation and use of proper grammar esp since I pay for private school. A grown man should be able to spell what and other simple words correctly.
If you don't know where your waist is and can't find your belt to hold your pants up your most likely not for me either. Not saying you have to wear skinny jeans (which is weird on straight men in my opinion anyway) but cloths that are 3 sizes too big and your underwear showing or the fact that you look like a 40yr old still trying to live his teenage years, it's not really appealing. To me at least, someone will find that attractive somewhere I'm sure. For me loose straight leg jeans or even tight boot cut jeans, loose sweat pants and a t-shirt wit a ball cap that's hot and grown up.
I love tattoos, but if they don't make sence and are all over your neck or across your collar bone and face, I can't take you home to meet daddy.
If you have a sleeve that's nicely done I'm understanding of that to a point. I have 6 all corporately hidden each one means something.
Kids I love them all and will do anything for those little boogers, but I also like to give them back to their parents. that being said my 1 kid is really a cool and I'm more than proud to be their mom; but that kid will be in high school soon which means college is around the corner and then retirement in Maine or Rome. See I have it all planned out! you have to be real special if you have a kid under 10 to change that plan. Also just like you guys don't want women with millions of "baby daddies", it's the same for some women. If you have more than two kids and more than 1 mother of those children, please keep moving. This has nothing to do with the type of parent you are I just don't want that many kids be them mine or not.
Lastly I like other women want a great man. And every man wants that great woman, but that doesn't mean we all want the same one. The thug looking guy that I wouldn't look once at will be the great guy for someone just not me.
I don't care about your job just have one. blue collar to me just means your great with your hands. And truthfully I like rough hands it's a sign of strength, independence, survivor and protector to me not saying white collar doesn't have rough hands too. (I'll take someone with soft hands too, but gives me the feeling I'll be fixing the fence or something in the house) lol again just my opinion doesn't mean it's fact of life or that my opinion can't change. Anyway so I went on a long rant. But I'm attracted to all sorts of personalities and styles. But if your the cowboy type with southern charm that can dance move on up to the front lol! But whomever you are reading and not turned off by my ranting nonsense that probably helps confirm all women are nutty; and you feel the need to take a chance and say hi, please spell the best you can, look like grown man, have a job, be educated (be it the world that taught you or a book. There are some educated idiots out there and if you have common sense you'll know what I mean) and be okay with rejection.
Okay another side rant.. Rejection is just the wrong one leaving the chance for the right one to find you.
I don't understand why so many people get offended when someone tells them no. You hear it all day at work I'm sure!
Just because your feelings are involved (and I don't know how they could be with online dating, you don't even know what the other person sounds like yet! I mean hell she can have a deeper voice then you for all you know). Anyway if someone takes the time to say thank you, but no thank you, they are not the one. Just be nice back and wish them the best, no need for all the rudeness.
Okay I think I'm done and if you made it this far God help you.. Lol j/k!
I truly pray for everyone to find the one God made for them. I just need the dude for me to hurry up I'm not getting any younger.. Lol
"And God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the earth."
Then He made the earth round...and He laughed and laughed and laughed!
Lets go dancing, putt-putt, gun range, or something neither one of us have ever tried before. Make dinner together and slow dance in the kitchen ( what that's a cheap date that looks like a great date. Trying to help you out lol)