I am a 42 year old professional, independent, beautiful, classy, woman. I am honest, and open. What I am looking for, is someone who knows what he wants , and is not afraid to get it. Someone who is ready to experience something real and true. I have my own things, so should you. I put BBW on my profile, because that is what I am, a big, beautiful woman, I have wide hips, thick thighs, long legs, and full beautiful lips, although I am taller than average, so I wear it better. If that is not what you're into, then keep it moving. I'm a very good cook, family oriented, and a neat person. I only have one son, who is 24 years old, is a student, works in the finance industry, and is a fulltime father. No slackers over here! Yes I am a GG, (Glamorous Grandmother), and I love every minute of it! If you would like to know more, send me a message.
**UPDATE** The main question that I am asked is "Why are you single?" So my answer to that is I made a promise to myself that I will NEVER settle for less than I am entitled to, as I know and realize my true worth. I am confronted with the fact that some guys are all talk and barely display enough action to be a credible source of happiness. So I have chosen to be happy on my own, with and by myself, choosing to be alone until I find the right person, because sharing my time with someone who doesn't make an effort to spend his time with me is pointless.
I would just like to add that any female can spend a mans money, ride in his car, lay up in his crib, order off the menu and spread her legs. But only a real woman can help a man achieve his goals in life, supports him when his spirit is broken, constantly push him to be successful, shower him with positive energy, compliment him regularly to show you care, and never kick him while he is down, instead she lifts him up. Once you find that woman, you should wife her, lol! Also, behind every good single woman is someone who wasn't man enough to understand the value of a real woman.
A coffee shop, for some conversation. Second Date, a nice romantic dinner.
UPDATE** I DON'T DO TEXTLATIONSHIPS, texting is fine at the very beginning, or if you are at work and cant talk, and for short hello's and such. But I am not getting to know you via text. I am grown, and grown ups have conversations. **UPDATE** There seems to be so many single people on here that say they are looking for love, or THE ONE, lol. Ever ask yourself, why are there so many intelligent, handsome, independent, kind, love to have fun, genuine, and whatever other adjective you describe yourselves with people on here, that are still single? You could be all those things you say you are, but the truth is most people think that as soon as they lock hearts with another person, someone else better will come along. Well it all comes down to faith. When you are blessed to experience someone who you can't take your mind off of, who has you smiling at a mere thought, who inspires you to do better, and be greater, have faith, trust and believe that person IS your best thing, and anything that comes along after that may just be a test of that faith.
If you set your standards at an unnattainable level, no one can reach them, no one will even want to try, and you will remain alone.