I just lost my mom in February of this year. I'm 39 looking to put the pieces back in my life. I'm self-employed in the wellness consulting business and am thinking about becoming a natural chef and opening up a small healthy food business. I love to run, keep in shape and eat healthy, but I am not boring. I've lived on Maui and Oahu for 8 years but am from the Bay Area peninsula. Hawaii will always be a second home but am glad to be back in Cali for now. I am humble to the fact that I am redesigning my life and don't have it all figured it out. If you are the kind of guy that doesn't stick when things get rough, we will probably not see eye-to-eye. I'm looking to spend my life with one man and I will wait for you. No hurry.