Ok ladies, either you are going to like me or hate me based off of what I write. Let's skip that crap and tell you who I am not and what I'm not looking for.
If you have been called a liar, slut, alcoholic etc please move on. I'm not super conservative but I've know right from wrong since I was like 13 and expect the same.
I don't drink but don't care if you do as long as you are moderate. Drunk chicks are such a turn off!
If you always are a person that gets bored, that means you are boring. Read a book, fly a kite. I can sit in a empty room with no money or stimulation and have a great time. Conversation is key!!
Also, I'm big on communication and honesty. Share everything and work out kinks. If u are about secrets and lying....You will get caught and you will get you heart broken.
Also, I might not be the most handsome or rich, I don't drive an awesome sports car, and I don't care what the latest celebrity is doing. There are plenty of those guys laying around...you can take your pick.
Primer on me:
I have traveled extensively (except Antarctica), I speak several languages, I graduated from a top 10 university, and have had a successful career. When I'm not working, I play several instruments, make furniture, read, watch foreign films, dance Bachata (I'm pretty darn good), travel, and volunteer as a firefighter/EMT. But my resume doesn't matter, it doesn't define me. I have yet to find a woman that can stimulate my eyes and my mind.
I love animals and am obsessed with cats, owls, koalas, some dogs, penguins...sounds weird but I think animals are better than humans.
I am the "gayest straight man" in the world. I have a sensitive side, secure with my masculinity, don't believe in D*** swinging, but am very handy and know how to "man" up.
Where are the intelligent women, who are successful in their careers, carry themselves like a lady should, and have beauty to spare...have been nothing but disappointments with their emotional handicaps and psychological turmoils. Get over your ex, date a guy who is strong both physically and mentally, and don't be threatened by that man.
I am very approachable, but am constantly told that many get very intimidated by me when they get to know me. I am very down to earth...so nothing to fear...leave the insecurities at the door. ;)
*side note: if your pics are "deceiving", or you don't have one....please don't insult me. In addition, if you have pics with smashed cleavage PLEASE DO NOT contact me. I am one of the few men that doesn't think with his genitals....AND it's not classy at all!!!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I come up with awesome first dates but have not met anyone online yet. If ur idea of a first date with a complete stranger is something like skydiving or canoeing, u are crazy. Why would you want to be alone with someone you don't know? What's your escape plan? Something like coffee or tea, or maybe even frozen yogurt (YUM) requires no commitment. I like stuff like that. Throw out the fake trying to impress you and get down to getting to know each other ;D
I'm very respectful.