I've been on and off of these types of sites for about 2 years now. Internet dating always feels like the discard pile to me. I don't mean to offend anyone with that statement, I'm on the same pile you are. Just feels that way sometimes. I don't know if the few (or maybe many, I don't get those messages) foul mouthed, no class guys ruin it for the rest of us or what. Let's be real....ALL guys ideally want a double jointed swimsuit model who puts up with and enables all of their vices and puts out on the first date. But, there is a difference between wanting and expecting.What I expect is conversation, nothing more. If it goes father than that after we chat....bonus! But let's chat a bit first. I'm cool chatting here, on the phone, or texting. I don't hide behind the text or email, but I understand it's more comfortable for some people.
About me...I wonder about me all the time. I like to think I'm a good listener with a good sense of humor (all be it REALLY demented at times) and can find value in almost anyone. I am in sales and currently doing the sales job I hate most...cars...YUCK! But right now it's a means to an end and I am patiently in search of a better, more suitable opportunity. Sales is a fickle mistress and patience pays off!
I like to cook, watch indie or odd movies (like the mainstream stuff too), go to concerts, play poker, get totally caught up in youtube or spotify journeys that last hours(not done one? they usually lead me to some really interesting things I wouldn't normally experience.). I like BBC America a lot and, yes, I AM a full fledged Doctor Who nerd. Musically, I can (and will) listen to almost anything as long as it's not too basic or just plain dumb (most of today's hip hop falls in to the latter category). My playlist comprises music from the 70s to now and every genre.
I'm not a "playa" and have no "game". What I am is honest, intelligent, and looking for someone who is the same. I'm looking for someone to accept me and my flaws and in turn I can accept them and their flaws. I'd love to sit here and spew the "I'm looking for THE ONE" babble, but I'm beginning to believe that it doesn't exist. It's all about finding someone who's inner crazy person gets along with my inner crazy person.....
Well, that was a jumbled, almost coherent mess of random facts. If they intrigue or interest you, feel free to send me a message.....