I have been avoiding dating for a while. Last year I dipped my toe in it and I got overwhelmed. I guess I kind of hid out for a while. It was a good experience. I learned a lot, mostly about myself. So I am here again more wiser and aware of who I am I what I desire.
The only way to describe me is to be open about who I am. I have been described as a man's man and what you see is what you get. I seek no favor of any one, I allow my actions to speak for themselves. I value honor, integrity and respect very highly. My word is my bond. I stand against bullies and defend the weak. I am a warrior, but my heart is made of love and compassion. I am a man of passion and I feel my feelings. I am also obnoxious looking to tease and laugh at any thing, which mostly ends up others giving me a bad time. You must laugh at yourself or go home. I am positive and see life with much opportunity. I love to empower people to be their best in any thing they desire. It brings a warm satisfaction to my heart to watch lives change that I have been a subtle piece in facilitating.
I strive to be a participator in life, not in the grand stands watching. Given that, you will not see me parked on the couch following whatever sport is being played. I do appreciate watching a good game but it is not a top priority for me.
I enjoy the hitting the gym. I have been a gym rat all my life and have competed on different platforms in my younger years. I have a love to hunt. Just being out there, being a part of what is there and escaping from the busy-ness of my world is where I find me. I also enjoy growing a garden. I love to watch what I have planted grow and bring forth it's fruit. I plant too much and mostly give it away. But I enjoy giving what I have grown to others who appreciate it.
What am I looking for?? Chemistry is a must. I desire a Christian woman, a woman you has a heart for God. I prefer to find a woman who values taking care of herself physically and is fit. It would be cool to work out with my partner at some level. I also would find it a huge bonus if she loved to hunt or even just enjoyed being present and part of the experience. I want a relationship that is not just one plus one and it equals two. But that the union equals a tenfold or even a hundred fold. That her presence in my life enhances all of me and I do the same for her.
My future?? My daughter is a junior this year and will graduate in the spring of 2015. Till that time arrives I am not making any drastic changes. But I am looking into retiring from my present position and doing something else. I am also getting encouragement to promote. So I am open to many possibilities. Where it will take me I do not know.
Dating.....I want to proceed slowly and build a friendship first. I want my best friend and I know I must build and nurture that before anything else can be enjoyed. I want to avoid the physical piece as much as possible. It tends to just mess it all up.
If you win my heart I will do all and any thing for you.