I am in a really good place in life. My kids are out of the house (at least for now), and I have a great job and friends. So, it's just the dog and me! It's a good time to focus on finding my best friend. I want a man in my life that makes me feel more like a woman. A lot of men don't understand the psyche of a single mother. It has been a personal growth adventure, but I will appreciate having a masculine influence in my life.
I want to find a partner for a long-term relationship—someone who is mentally young and young-thinking. I’d prefer his children, if he has them, to at least be in high school. The ideal mate? A social, intelligent, active and confident man. He has a sense of humor and a yen for travel. Of course he’ll have a wide range of friends (a golf foursome would make a nice date!), and maybe a few specialty dishes he can whip up whether a dinner party with friends is in order or just a quiet night at home for two.
I tend to be attracted to men that are at least 5' 10" (without shoes), dark hair, bald or grey; a clean shaven face unless it's neat and tight. I find my personality fits best with someone who is a first born, or their birth order is somewhere in the middle.
Let's not waste a lot of time e-mailing. We can only tell if there is chemistry face-to-face. I spend a lot of time looking at a computer screen at work and do not live to get home and stare at another computer. I do not want a pen pal and I won't date anyone who looks like my grandfather :)