I have been in long term relationships thought I found the one unfortunately he passed away 3yrs ago... I Have dealt with lots of deaths and cancer at a young age. Both my parents are cancer survivors not once but twice! Life is to short I live it to the fullest everyday. Im down to earth, Say it like it is, no BS, pretty competitive, driven, and independent women. Love sports watching or playing. I enjoy being outdoors love any body of water and even enjoy hiking. I dont mind getting dirty but i also like dressing up for a fancy dinner made at home or date night. I enjoy good wine and good food. Family means the most to me. Im looking for someone with a fun sense of humor can take spir of the moment trips. Has a life goal or plan in mind. I know times are tough out there but i like a man who is driven. Someone that enjoys nights on the couch better than nights on the town. Dont get me wrong i love going out but i enjoy sweats and nice bottle of wine just as much!... Im not on here for a good time i can find that elsewhere. I won't tolerate clingy needy or unmotivated men!!!