Beccaj44: Don't judge a book by its cover.....
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
San luis obispo, California
50 year old Female, 5' 1" (155cm), Christian - other
Hispanic, Pisces
Beccaj44 is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic
Administrative Assistant


I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 9 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat Second Language Spanish

About Me
I consider myself "Good-natured Realist"
Quiet, kind and conscientious. Can be depended on to follow through. Im stable and practical, I value security and traditions.I have a Rich inner world of observations about people. Im Extremely perceptive of other’s feelings.
I can be funny, people enjoy my company, I don't judge people, and give people the benefit of the doubt.
If you've read my profile and want to say hi, please do, I would love to hear from you, and if you don't stop by to say hi, I wish the best of luck in your search for happiness!

After some time, one learns the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul…
 And one learns that love does not mean sleeping together. And that a companion does not mean security, and one starts to learn... That kisses are not contracts and gifts are not promises, and one starts to accept his/ her defeats head up and with open eyes, and one learns to build all his/ her paths in the present, because the land of tomorrow is too insecure for plans... And futures have their own way of breaking apart. And after some time one learns that, if it is too much, even the heat of the sun can burn. So one cultivates his/ her own garden and decorates his/her own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring him/her flowers. And one learns that one can really resist, that one is truly strong, that one is worth it, and one that every day. With time you learn that being with someone because they offer you a good future means that sooner or later you'll want to go back to your past. With time you understand that only he/ she who is able to love you with all your faults without wanting to change you can give you happiness. With time you realize that if you are with a person just to alleviate your solitude, you'll irremediably end up wishing not to see him/ her anymore. With time you learn that good friend are very few and that the person who does not fight for them sooner or later will see him/ herself surrounded by fake friendships.
 With time you realize that the words said in moments of anger keep hurting for a lifetime.
 With time you learn that everyone can apologize but forgiving is an attribute exclusive to big souls.
 With time you understand that if you have hurt a friend badly it is probable that your friendship will never be the same. With time you realize that even though you are happy with your friends, you cry for those you let go.
 With time you realize that that each experience shared with another person cannot be repeated.
 With time you realize the person who humiliates or despises a human being, will sooner or later suffer those humiliations and despite but multiplied.
With time you learn to build all you paths in the present, because the paths of tomorrow do not exist.
 With time you understand that rushing things and forcing them to happen in the end causes them not to be the way you expected.
With time you realize that in reality the best was not the future, but the moment that you were living just in that instant.
With time you will see that if you are happy with people by your side, you’ll long for those that parted.
With time you’ll learn to forgive or apologize,
 Say you love,
 Say you miss,
Say you need,
 Say that you want to be friends, since there is no point in doing it in front of a tombstone.
 But unfortunately only with time… 
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