I have a little saying that describes me pretty well I think.
I am a handful. I am strong willed, independent, a little outspoken, witty, and I tell it like it is. I make mistakes, occasionally lose control, and am just plain hard to understand at times. But I love with all my heart and soul. So if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best.
My life... I work, I study, and I sleep. I do enjoy spending time with my family and a few close friends when I'm home.
Good books, my little brother, fresh sushi, movies that make me laugh so hard I nearly lose consciousness, weekend vacations, animal welfare events, blowing stuff up on the 4th of July, and Christmas shopping are my favorite things in life.
I like a man who is well educated either by book or by life, has a sense of humor, wants to build a family, loves animals, likes to be affectionate, and is always working to better himself.
My two requirements are that (1) you are HAPPY to be seen with me... in front of your friends, family, and God himself and (2) you need to be single and not living with or "hanging out" with your ex's.
Just so we are clear... I am FAT... Let's not sugar coat this, cuz I just might eat that too lol!! I'm not thick, big boned, chubby, fluffy, plus sized, queen sized, BBW, or whatever is the currently appropriate term. FAT is the word. Doesn't mean I won't want to change tomorrow or in the future, but I'm not going to live my life feeling down all the time. Fat and happy is me :)
Relaxation is key to me. It can come in many forms... movies... a car show... good food... a night at the D-Derby... afternoon at the lake... volunteering at the animal shelter, whatever. I can talk to anyone fairly easily on a variety of subjects.
*HINT* I do enjoy it when a man puts forth an effort, chivalry is not dead. Nice guys do not finish last with me.