It's simple. Life is short. Don't play me or blow smoke. I ain't chasin u. Trust and laughter are very important to me. U don't gotta be perfect so don't expect me to be. I'm a momma first. So, don't pretend to like kids and not spend time with your own( not that I'm one of those pushy woman where a man's kids are concerned but whether I am with him or not, he needs to spend time with his kids.) I know what I want and what I don't want. I'm a good woman and I know the kind of man I deserve. You can't be what I need then don't waste both of our time and I'll just flat out tell you whether it's workable or not. If you are all about you, it's not gonna work. I am not a selfish person and my home is an open door. If someone I care about needs me, I'll do what I can. I keep extra kids over a lot, some of them are special needs kids. My life will not be draped over anyone, I want the kind of man who wants to be by my side while I do my thing and I can do the same with him. I always feed people when they come over because when you enter my house you are treated like family not a psychological experiment. If you don't know how to make yourself at home, you got issues. I am more of a homebody. Love to cuddle up watching movies, reading books, playing cards. I am very artsy, love to be creative and I do sew on occassion. I do alot of theatre and music not only with my daughter but, ANY child that wants to learn. I am not high maintenance but, take care of myself. I am independent but not ignorantly so. I'm not going to be pretentious for you or anyone else. I am what i am, and I'm cool with that. Well, if you made it through that lengthy speech, maybe you'll message me but, if not, good luck to you and I hope you find what you are looking for.