How would you like to wake-up with a nice, honest, transparent guy next to you who you can trust; who will make you his one and only main squeeze; who will treat you with respect; greet you with a long sensuous, passionate kiss and then cuddle with you? I could be that guy!
What follows is a brief honest account of how I wound up on POF, my situation, who I am and what I'm looking for in a woman.
Three years ago I left an unhealthy marriage because my ex-wife broke the circle of trust. I left the marriage with no money, no car, no health insurance and no place to live. After the decree I received an apology from my ex. I forgave her and moved on.
Today, I have a small steady income, transportation, health and dental insurance and a savings account.
I'm an author of six parenting books and started a new business. My sixth book debuted last month and is doing very well. I also have a contract to publish three more books.
I feel my life is headed in a very positive direction and a bright future is ahead of me. I'd love to meet a woman with whom I can share these successes.
I currently live at my mother’s house because she has a mild case of dementia. She is 80 years old. I don’ t need to be with her 24/7 – just keep tabs on her. I live in a room behind the garage so I have some privacy.
If my situation does not appeal to you, I understand.
If you've gotten this far and would like to know more about me keep reading.
I'm Dutch/Indonesian and born in Brazil. I have lived in three different countries and feel very fortunate to have landed in the USA.
I’m a guy who sees the glass half-full, enjoys laughter, and has a good sense of humor.
I love being outdoors and all the beautiful weather southern California has to offer. I also relish the times it rains and enjoy walking in the rain without an umbrella - love feeling the raindrops on my face.
I'm very friendly and comfortable meeting new people; very affectionate and enjoy long kisses.
I’m looking for a confident, secure woman who also sees the glass-half full, doesn’t let her age slow her down and would like to continue celebrating life.
Please be over your ex, no emotional baggage; and don't play mind games. The latter is a reason I left my unhealthy marriage.
If you'd like to meet, I hope it will give us an opportunity to remove ourselves from POF. :)