It appears every lady on POF is looking for an honest, trustworthy man. Believe it or not so are some men. I'm one of them.
The only way to demonstrate honesty and trustworthiness is to be transparent from the get go. While my current situation is difficult for most women to accept, it is what it is and only temporary.
What follows is a brief honest account of how I wound up on POF, my situation, who I am and what I'm looking for in a woman.
Three years ago I left an unhealthy marriage because my ex-wife broke the circle of trust. I left the marriage with no money, no car, no health insurance and no place to live. After the decree I received an apology from my ex. I forgave her. I'm over her and moved on.
Today, I have a small steady income, transportation, health and dental insurance and a savings account. I'm grateful and proud of what I've accomplished in the last three years.
I'm an author of six published books and started a new business. My sixth book debuted last month and is doing very well. I also have a contract to publish three more books.
I feel my life is headed in a very positive direction and a bright future is ahead of me. I'd love to meet a woman with whom I can share these successes and also help her achieve her dreams.
I currently live at my mother’s house because she has a mild case of dementia. She is 80 years old. I don’ t need to be with her 24/7 – just keep tabs on her. I live in a room behind the garage so I have some privacy.
If my situation does not appeal to you, I understand.
If you've gotten this far, then it means you could be a good catch for me. If you would like to know more about me keep reading.
I'm Dutch/Indonesian and born in Brazil. I have lived in three different countries and feel very fortunate to have landed in the USA.
I’m a guy who sees the glass half-full, enjoys laughter, and has a good sense of humor. I appreciate the little things and life but also aspire to splurge once in a while.
Spiritual wealth is more important to me than monetary wealth. However, one of my goals is to be financially independent. I'm hopeful my new book will help me succeed in accomplishing this goal.
I love to dance. I was blessed with the rhythm gene. If you get a chance to see me dance, I will not disappoint you.
I love being outdoors and all the beautiful weather southern California has to offer. I also relish the times it rains and enjoy walking in the rain without an umbrella - love the smell of rain and feeling the raindrops on my face.
I'm very friendly and comfortable meeting new people.
I also and enjoy long intimate kisses, caressing and frequent acts of affection. If you know what I mean. :)
I’m looking for a confident, secure woman who also sees the glass-half full, doesn’t let her age slow her down and would like to continue celebrating life.
Please be over your ex, no emotional baggage; and don't play mind games.
If you'd like to meet, I hope it will give us an opportunity to remove ourselves from POF. :)