First and Foremost, I'm not here for any "bootycalls, flings, one night stands, hook up, casual encounters,..etc.." I can get that ANYTIME, just like I'm sure YOU can too. Im here for 100% legit reasons............ Having said that...
*Not sure if this is the right place where to meet a nice woman when everyone seems to be searching for some poor sucker to pay off their bills.Yikes!
*Why do women claim to be searching for the "man of their dreams," but always settle for guys with player and thug characteristics? Is that what girls dream about?
*I keep noticing profiles requesting men write LONG intro letters and not the typical " Whats up" introduction, what for? when most women on here don't have the decency to respond.
*This website seems to have a lot of people with high expectations, but they're the one that have the most baggage and always seem to have less to offer in return!
*I have no problem treating you like the princess you feel you are, ONLY if you treat me like the KING I know I am.... :)
* Girls, don't waste people's time, state what you're looking for!
As a realist, I feel some of us need a serious reality check in the "love" department. Thats why I am compelled to say this to all you "dreamers" out there,.....There's no such thing as the "perfect person." Yes ladies, stop waiting for that super perfect guy to miraculously appear in your life to solve all your problems. All relationships have problems, some more than others. Relationships are what you make of them and how much you're willing to SACRIFICE to make them work. No one can read your mind, fulfill all your needs, and know when to please you- ALL THE TIME. Your partner has his own ambitions, expectations and pleasures you may not be aware of, and if you knew what they were, I bet you wouldn't consider them first or know how to fulfill them. If people were to be more realistic, instead of so stink'n self centered, pretentious or superficial, everyone would be partnered up by now. Not trying to be pessemistic or destroy all hope, but if some of us would just stop buying into all those unrealistic soap operas you watch on TV and love novels that portray the 'perfect' relationship you wouldn't be so disappointed and disillusioned when your dating expectations don't unfold the way you thought they would like in the fiction world. I guess sometimes some of us need to get hurt really bad to learn.
-Ambitious and hard working
-Loving, affectionate, romantic, forgiving, generous, reasonably understanding, considerate, conscience,
-Women know me as the most sweetest and honest person they know
-Men respect me and ask for my advice.
-My confidence overshines anyone's arrogance
-Not looking for miss perfect, just miss normal.
-I don't pursue women that think they can have any man they want or show me equal interest in return.
-I'm not attracted to any specific race, I'm very diverse.
-I like mature women regardless of age, just as long as you're 25+
-I'm not perfect, but i'm sure I'm one of the best out there.....thats for dam sure.
-I'm the guy you regret not selecting, you'll acknowledge this after that player leaves you heartbroken, single and pregnant
-Sexy tight clothes, implants, and a lot of make-up doesn't define beauty in my eyes nor does it make you a better person.
-If you're not into me, I will definitely not be into you....I dont beg anyone for dates, attention or love, unless you're already my girl.
-If I contact you to say hi and you dont respond, fIne, I get it, I'm not your type and chances are you're not mine either. (If I contact you again, it's a ligit accident, my apologies, you might have dyed your hair or something)
-Im an aggressive writer, but far from my personality.
-Im the most unluckiest man in the world, sorry.
-Im not trying to make anyone my "servant or slave" just like I'm not trying to become anyone's walking 24hr ATM.
-Your PHD doesn't mean anything to me unless you have BASIC common sense, logic, reasoning, morals and ethics.
- I choose to be single because I don't settle for liars.
My ideal girl has my exact qualities..........
1. Normal (No drama)
2. Humble (but not naive)
3. Real (but not disrespectful)
4. Smarts: Average is ok (but not a "smart ass")
7. Open Minded /Sense of Humor
12. Morals and Values
*if you lack 50% of the above you are not a normal person.
1. Inspiring models or Actresses (too egotistical)
2. High maintenance (Superficial, materialistic or pretentious people)
3. Little girls. (If you're scared of older men, you're not a woman yet)
4. Self Absorbed, self focused, conceited, egocentric, Narcissistic, and stuck up (Keep it up and you'll probably end up single for the rest of your life dear)
5. Girls that "party" too much or too wild
6. Girls who think their poop don't stink because they just bought a new car (Everyone buys a new car after a while)
7. Girls that pucker in EVERY picture and stick their butts out (Then you wonder why guys treat you like youre easy)
8. Girls that want to be the center of attention everywhere they go
9. Girls who talk or look like cholas, date cholos/thugs or have them as close relatives.
10. Unhealthy people- 150lb and below please (Sorry, I have to be able to carry you in case you passout - nothing personal).... (Thick and curvy is OK)
11. Girls that look like hoochies, have exagerated Implants and wear color contacts w/o prescription.
12. Girls that are bossy, possessive, insecure, and manipulative all the time! (please seek therapy)
13. Promiscuous women, Ex-strippers, call girls, escorts, bartenders, fashion junkies, sport freaks, Night club "Go-Go" Dancers, wanna-be sex symbols, swingers..etc....
14. Women that curse too much
15. BIG tattoos on cleavage, legs, neck or face (anywhere else is ok)..(Sorry not attractive to me/especially some guy's name)
16. Liars, Hypocrites, people who act like "Players", Hustlers or "Ballers", racists, bias, or prejudice people
17. Girls that play "chase me, beg me" games...(grow up!)
* When you really think about it, nothing above is considered "high expectations", they're just filters excluding the FAKE. I'm in search of a peaceful, non dramatic relationship all aiming towards marriage material.
*SINGLE MOMS: POF is packed with pretty single moms but with the same stories and issues! It seems as if 99.9% hooked up with the typical "bad boy" loser (Girls never learn.) That's why I must inform you to PLEASE be honest if you have ex BF drama or baby sitting issues. I deserve at least that much.