I am an energetic person who works hard, but also enjoys life to the fullest. My relationships be it family, friends or significant other are extremely important to me. I have one grown son I adore who now lives with his girlfriend . My favorite thing is international travel, as I love learning about different cultures and becoming more worldly & love tropical vacations. Music is my passion(I love many genres) & have it playing all the time. I tend bar at a restaurant on Newbury St. as well as own my own promotions company. I am older than my profile states for a reason I had when setting up my profile that I will happily share with you , but unfortunately the site will not allow me to change it. I am used to working many hours to enjoy the things I like doing in life, which are many, and in order to live the life style I desire. I love good wine & enjoy eating & living a healthy lifestyle , working out, running & being outdoors. I walk all over the city daily living & working in Back Bay(which I love ). I enjoy boating & the beach. I love all the arts: Movies, theatre, music & art. I am extremely gregarious & enjoy immensely meeting new people and doing new things. I am open minded, treat people the way I want to be treated, am respectful, thoughtful, compassionate & passionate . Intimacy & affection are important to me in a relationship, as is honesty and trust.
I am the epitome of a Libra & as once quoted, this describes my personality in a nutshell:
Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with... you might end up crying... Libras can cause as much havoc as they can prevent. faithful friends to the end. Can hold a grudge for years. Libras are someone you want on your side. Usually great at sports .."
I am blown away by how true this is to who I am, with the exception of the creating havoc as I refuse to fight with anyone. Life is too short to be anything but happy. I avoid negativity entirely.
I am single because I refuse to "settle" & working nights as a bar tender makes it a challenge dating as well as meeting someone where I keep business and pleasure separate & never date patrons. I've had other careers & am not opposed to changing my hours, once I have a reason to. One thing about being single has taught me I don't "need" someone to make me happy, as we all need to make ourselves happy before we can expect somebody else to . Having accomplished being independent emotionally & financially, it's not out of "need", but something I would "prefer" to do; growing old with someone "special" to enjoy all life's great & beautiful things it has to offer. :)
I love this quote: "Life is like a camera. Just focus on what's important and capture the good times, develop from the negatives and if things don't work out, just take another shot."
People compliment me most on my positive outlook on life. I also definitely live by the 3 words in my headline..."Live, laugh, love".