I am an energetic person who works hard, but also enjoys life to the fullest. My relationships be it family, friends or significant other are extremely important to me. I have one grown son from my previous marriage who now lives with his girlfriend . My favorite thing is international travel, as I love learning about different cultures and becoming more worldly. I also love tropical vacations. Music is my passion! I like everything outside of country and hip hop.I have music playing all the time. I tend bar at a multiple Zagat award winning restaurant on Newbury St as well as own my own promotions company. I am older than my profile states , but it won't let me change it . I am used to working a lot to enjoy the things I like doing in life,which are many, and in order to live the life style I desire. I love good wine & rarely drink hard alcohol (but am not opposed to those who do ),as I enjoy it as a cultural thing to do when enjoying good foods. (Must be an Italian thing). I also enjoy eating & living a healthy lifestyle , working out, running & just being outdoors. I walk all over the city daily, including to & from work, living & working both in the Back Bay . I love the beach, boating, find peace and serenity watching a sunset at the Charles or just relaxing on a beach. I love all the arts . Love a good movie. I am extremely gregarious & enjoy immensely meeting new people and doing new things. I am open minded, treat people the way I want to be treated, am respectful, thoughtful, compassionate & passionate . Intimacy & affection are important to me in a relationship, as is honesty and trust. .
I am the epitome of a Libra & as once quoted, this describes my personality in a nutshell:
Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with... you might end up crying... Libras can cause as much havoc as they can prevent. faithful friends to the end. Can hold a grudge for years. Libras are someone you want on your side. Usually great at sports .."
I am blown away by how true this is to who I am! With the exception of the creating havoc as I refuse to fight with anyone. Life is too short to be anything but happy! I avoid negativity entirely.
People ask me all the time why I am single. Simply, I refuse to "settle". Also, working nights as a bar tender certainly makes it a challenge for dating and meeting someone . Just because I meet many people in my line of work, doesn't mean I will go out with them. It's a smart rule is to keep business and pleasure separate. I have had many other careers & am not opposed to changing my hours , once I have a reason to. One thing about being single has showed me I don't "need" someone to make me happy. We all need to make ourselves happy before we can expect somebody else to , however now that I have accomplished that and am independent financially & emotionally , it's not out of "need", but it is something I do "desire to do" and that is grow old with someone special to enjoy all life's great and beautiful things it has to offer. :) Sharing life with that "special" person(not just anyone) would most definitely make life THAT much better and I do very much look forward to that day"we" have found each other:)
In closing , people compliment me most on my positive outlook on life, and I most definitely live by those 3 words in my headline.."Live, laugh, love".