I grew up in San Jose, yes, a native, not to many of us. Love the area. There is always something to do and somewhere to go. My favorite places / things to do include friends and family and water, whether the beach, a lake or poolside. Hanging out with friends, live music, good food, and a glass of wine. All that's missing is a special someone to share it with.
I have 2 awesome children, who are growing up and don't keep me as busy as they used to. I'm starting to have a little breathing room and am ready to find someone to spend forever with.
We're all growns ups here, we know this rarely happens on a first date, that we need to spend some time together to know for sure, and chemistry is important. There does need to be an initial interest and attraction. I'm looking for someone to laugh with, watch sunsets with, enjoy eachothers company and a variety of activities. Is that you?
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I would love for my date to take me somewhere fairly casual and comfortable to enjoy some good conversation getting to know each other and watch the sunset. I'm thinking a picnic at Vasona park, Appetizers at Santana Row, or the patio at the Crows Nest. We could do a little walking, a little more talking and see what happens.