**Do not message me if you don't have a picture or won't take the time to read my profile. Thanks!**
I'm a bad ass fat ass! I'm a writer and a fat activist. I fight for equality and stand up for the underdog. I am passionate and seek out the creative outlets and adventures in the world. Honesty, equality and respect matter to me most. I'm definitely one of those positive thinkers, but mostly because I've lived that other way (the Dark Side?) and have seen my life transform for the best by choosing not to be so down.
I am one of those people that doesn't do things half-assed. I do tend wear my heart on my sleeve, but not in a pathetic way. I'm an open book is all. I throw my whole self into things and generally reap the benefits of that. I have at least two songs in my head at any given moment. I have been known to communicate through song lyrics and movie quotes, but I try to keep it in check. I'm hilarious, but rarely obnoxious.
Dudes, just for you, a handy-dandy guide: How to date fat girls: http://adiposeactivist.wordpress.com/2013/01/11/how-to-date-a-fat-girl/ (No, I didn't write it.)
I've heard that meeting confident women is rare. This is sad, but it is also why I do the activism work that I do. Yes, I am confident and fat (fat is a descriptor, not an insult). I understand that those two things "shouldn't" co-exist within the same person, but they do and I'm not interested in anyone attempting to "change" that about me. Thanks.
I'm just trying to experience whatever the world has to offer. I like to push myself outside of my comfort zone, that's where all the fun is and I love to learn new things. I'm following my passions and my gut instincts and enjoying my journey.
Because I get asked a lot: "So what are you looking for? Something serious? Something frivolous? Or something in-between?"
Definitely something in between. Not looking for hook ups or getting married any time soon, but looking for someone equally awesome to get to know, spend time with being silly, checking out new things and having good times.
I'm looking for someone who is comfortable in their own skin, confident and enjoys life. I like people who have passions in their life. Creative types, geeky-nerdy types and positive thinkers. Generally speaking, interested in guys ages 25-38, someone who can express themselves through words and actually wants to meet and hang out with me. There's no hard and fast rule to this though, so hit me up, who knows?!
Looking to cut loose and have some fun! That could be anything and rarely costs much. A movie, some hard cider (I don't drink beer, but****ails are fun), good laughs and good times. It's the simple things. Karaoke, billiards, dancing, board games, DIY projects, bowling, pinball...Bring it on!
Know somewhere with a killer Jukebox?
(Those are still around, right?)
Do NOT message me for hook ups! Do NOT message me if you don't have a picture. And please have more to say then, "Damn, girl, you so sexy!" *RollsEyes*
It's okay if you're shy or don't know what to say...just say something! I never know how to start a conversation on OKC, so awkward! So let's just agree that it's a bit odd and ride it out together...Say Hi, tell me about your favorite movie/book/tv show/hobby or how about why you think you might like me!
You like confident fat gals and don't buy into the weight cycling industry's marketing bullsh*tor the social stigma that resulted.
You love music and art and if you like/write poetry, you better hit me up!
You want great conversation, laughs or someone to chill with on a weeknight.
You can tell me about a band or movie I've never heard of but MUST check out!
You're a foodie or coffee geek.
You're open-minded and laid back.
You're a geek/nerd/dork/artist/writer/bad ass!
You're a lady looking for lady friends who don't suck.
You're crafty or a DIYer; I am always looking for new crafty friends and projects and I'm re-doing my bathroom and can always use a hand.
If you repeatedly peep my profile I shall assume you're a crazed stalker, madly in love with me and waiting for the "right" moment to make your "grand gesture."
Please don't, just talk to me. If I don't respond, it really does mean I'm not interested. Thanks.
Go easy on the compliments, guys, they won't get you far.
If I don't respond I'm busy or uninterested, either way it's nothing personal.
Also, smile in your picture! A lot of you look like serial killers or hernia sufferers, based on your pictures.
**Pro-tip: When taking your own pic with a cell phone in the bathroom mirror, turn the phone around so you can see the reflection of the display and thus take a better picture that doesn't show your cell phone in the pic or block your face at all. You're welcome. ;)