**Do not message me if you don't have a picture or won't take the time to read my profile. If this is TL;DR - MOVE ON!**
If you message me and I don't respond I'm busy or uninterested, either way it's nothing personal.
I'm a bad ass fat ass! I am passionate and seek out the creative outlets and adventures in the world. Honesty, equality and respect matter to me most. I've heard that meeting confident women is rare. This is sad, but it is also why I do the activism work that I do. Yes, I am confident and fat (fat is a descriptor, not an insult). I understand that those two things "shouldn't" co-exist within the same person, but they do and I'm not interested in anyone attempting to "change" that about me.
I'm looking for a real FWB situation, where you would be able to host and even pick me up and go out from time to time. Mostly weeknights, some Friday & Saturday nights, but Sunday nights I do my nails and watch my zombies, so good luck trying to encroach on that! Ha-ha! I have to actually have a connection with you before anything physical happens, but not looking for another boyfriend. Someone I enjoy seeing, that we have some things in common and can carry an intelligent, if not entirely geeky-silly, conversation.
I'm looking for someone who is comfortable in their own skin, confident and enjoys life. I like people who have passions in their life. Creative types, geeky-nerdy types and positive thinkers. Generally speaking, interested in someone who can express themselves through words and actually wants to meet and hang out with me. The sexiest thing, I think, is a great conversation. I'm bisexual, but inexperienced, and pof doesn't have a Bi option.
I'm 420 friendly, but only vape occasionally, and not into the whole stoner lifestyle. I enjoy relaxing with some good stuff for a chill night in. I'm 100% disease free, don't do any drugs (besides cannabis), but I do enjoy alcohol. I'm an atheist and a feminist. If either of those words made you cringe or roll your eyes, please move on! I don't socialize with Nazis or republicans or anyone else who views other humans as less than human.
Dudes, just for you, a handy-dandy guide: How to date fat girls: http://adiposeactivist.wordpress.com/2013/01/11/how-to-date-a-fat-girl/ (No, I didn't write it.)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Looking to cut loose and have some fun! That could be anything and rarely costs much. A movie, some hard cider, good laughs and good times. It's the simple things. Karaoke, billiards, dancing, board games, DIY projects, bowling, pinball...Bring it on!
Know somewhere with a killer Jukebox?
(Those are still around, right?)
Do NOT message me for hook ups! Do NOT message me if you don't have a picture. And please have more to say then, "Damn, girl, you so sexy!" *RollsEyes*
It's okay if you're shy or don't know what to say...just say something! Say Hi, tell me about your favorite movie/book/tv show/hobby or how about why you think you might like me!
You like confident fat gals and don't buy into the weight cycling industry's marketing bullsh*t or the social stigma that resulted.
You love music and art and if you like/write poetry, you better hit me up!
You want great conversation, laughs or someone to chill with on a weeknight.
You can tell me about a band or movie I've never heard of but MUST check out!
You're a foodie or coffee geek.
You're open-minded and laid back.
You're a geek/nerd/dork/artist/writer/bad ass!
You're a lady looking for lady friends or lovers who don't suck.
You're crafty or a DIYer; I am always looking for new crafty friends and projects and I'm re-doing my bathroom and can always use a hand.
If you repeatedly peep my profile I shall assume you're a crazed stalker, madly in love with me and waiting for the "right" moment to make your "grand gesture."
Please don't, just talk to me. If I don't respond, it really does mean I'm not interested. Thanks.
Go easy on the compliments, guys, they won't get you far.
If I don't respond I'm busy or uninterested, either way it's nothing personal.
Also, smile in your picture! A lot of you look like serial killers or hernia sufferers, based on your pictures.
**Pro-tip: When taking your own pic with a cell phone in the bathroom mirror, turn the phone around so you can see the reflection of the display and thus take a better picture that doesn't show your cell phone in the pic or block your face at all. You're welcome. ;)