** Update: Looking for a "classy woman" does not require discussing sex during every conversation** seriously? Why is this so hard!?
Please be serious about a relationship- I'm not looking for a hookup! I've been off this site for months, and I am far from desperate. I'm still hopeful I can find "the one".
I try to accept people as they are, since that's how I want people to treat me. I have changed a lot in my life in the last year and I am so much happier and healthier. My faith is important to me, as I have gone back to church after being away for almost 14 years, and I am working on improving my health by eating better and working out. It's definitely a long road- no quick fixes, and I'd hope I can find someone who is supportive, but accepts me even if I never lose another pound.
What sets me apart from the sea of other women on here? Hm. I know what I want, and I know what I won't settle for any longer. I dont like playing games or guys who are themselves players. I am not going to fight for your attention. If you like someone, why can't you just say that?
I won't be the perfect match for everyone, and that's ok. I am not the cookie- cutter picture of perfection for every guy, and that's ok too... But my hope is that the guy I am supposed to be with thinks I am imperfectly perfect for him. :-)
The best dates, first or otherwise, don't have to be expensive. Can I get to know you? Can we flirt? Is it laid back and relaxed, and not weird or forced? If yes- then I am good just about anywhere.