I'm an intellectual woman seeking someone who will challenge my intellect. I am coming into my own spiritually, but I am definitely not into organized religion. I am a very caring, generous, loving woman. I love to do things for my family and my close friends. My passion is music - I try to go to as many concerts as I can afford to; I love live shows! I am looking to meet someone who loves music like I do, and who enjoys new experiences. I want someone in my life who won't try to control me, but would rather encourage my growth as we walk our life paths together. Past relationships have taught me that I must remain true to myself, and I must not lose myself. Too often, we forget and lose ourselves in the other person and the relationship. I've also learned that things don't always work out the way we want them to - but they work out in the way they are supposed to. Everything happens for a reason. So, with that in mind...hit me up. Oh, and if all you want is a hookup, I am not the one for you, so keep walking.
Go somewhere public where we can spend time talking, getting to know about each other, see if it would be worth investing time in one another. Shouldn't that be how first dates go? Or how about this scenario:
Meeting up for a smoothie, then taking the smoothies with us as we walk along the beach or the tourist shops near the beach. As we walk and sip on our smoothies, we talk, ask questions about each other, and window shop and joke about the things we see along the path. If we find we have more in common and want to pursue something, then the date ends soon after that, and we plan a second date.