I believe we are the summation of our stuff, our tastes, and our knowledge. I would like to think that I am not a very complicated person but after reflecting on what to write here I have discovered that I am. Damn these ‘about me sections!”
What best describes me:
I'm a country girl stuck in the city. I'd love to live out in the country someday. I'm simple, not materialistic & work hard for nice things. My daughter comes first, job comes second, and everything else falls in line there after. And I really mean that! I'm a realist. I love to laugh and smile. I'm a positive and an optimistic person, I enjoy all that life has to offer and try to learn something new each day. I strive to leave the world a better place then it was prior to waking up in the morning, if that means I pick up trash I find on the ground or bring an advocate for someone ~ so be it. I enjoy volunteering and giving back to my community. I have a huge love for children, animals and the elderly. When getting to know me.. You'll notice I use :) way to much and will sincerely care about who you are as a person. Who you see, is who I am.. Who I come across as, it's who I am all the time.. I will not lie to you, misguide you, mislead you.. And truth be told.. Will probably be to open & honest with you.. But seeking all the same in return..
My flaws or possible downside about me ((consider yourself warned)) : I find it hard to handle overly sensitive men, I do need to have 'me time' & require this. If you are the type who needs me every second in which I am not working - This won't workout. I have a pretty demanding job & I'm not always able to respond to text messages throughout the day - but I do my best.. I love to travel, if you can't afford to do so.. Don't get mad at me when I decide to. I like to think I'm patient, but I do have a breaking point & I won't date you if you're married OR separated .. Yes, I understand - I may be a hypocrit (being I'm separated).. But I'm not married.. I have no baggage, other parent drama, etc. I need & want a simple life - drama/problems & I don't get along. Most important, I love my kid, enjoy hanging out with her & won't put you before her. I do make time for my other half.. Just don't be upset if I have plans with her & you're not included. All in due time - I don't parade men around my child.
What I'm looking for:
I'm in search of friends.. Really just one. I'm not looking to date or hook-up.. Just someone to spend time with as our schedules permit. My ideal person would be honest above anything else. Dishonesty is a deal breaker. I'm not looking for a friends with benefits type situation. He would be a family man! Someone who is a Christian and GOES to church. Someone who isn't looking to rush into a relationship and is willing to actually learn and get to know each other .. Be friends first! Someone who is ok not seeing me EVERYDAY.. I had responsibilities & sometimes just want to do nothing & this should be ok! Someone who LIKES spending time with the kids (in due time), has his own children, probably be a big kid himself, who's hilarious, loves to joke an play around.. Is professional and has goals, hopes and dreams and is on that path in life.. Someone who's assertive an confident.. But not arrogant. Someone who pays their bills and can pay their way in life ~ I'm not a sugar mama!
Ideally he'd be taller then me .. Perferably 5'8 or taller and he'd be bigger built. I'm not a tiny girl, I have curves, meat on my bones, thighs, an a butt. I need a man who I can feel comfortable next too and not have you be smaller than me and one I can look up to :) but .. We can't have what we want all the time & looks are not the first requirement for me..
He would prefer to fix things that are broken as opposed to replacing.. Be independent, compassionate but a romantic & someone who has time to talk, time to spend doing things and isn't looking to message or send endless text back and forth. Please, this is important.. Communication is huge, collectively.. We should never run out of things to say, conversation should flow naturally.
He wouldn't be a partier, a club goer, drinker, or smoker! These are not negotiable .. If you smoke, you're not for me... Yes, this includes vaping. If you drink daily, you're not for me. Yes, even as friends.. A glass of wine or a beer here and there no prob.. Just do be a drunk. My fun now comes from hanging out at softball fields all over Orange County, learning how to use the scoreboard, maning the snack bar, having sleep overs, or baking for yet another school event.
Ultimately, at the end of the day.. I think we all just want to find our best friend. We can write all the qualities and aspects were looking for - But I'd be happy just to meet someone of QUALITY. Have your life together, pay your bills, give back to those less fortunate, be a good person and role model to today's youth & know how to have a good time without being under the influence of anything. Have some sense of spirituality, morals, values and a love for family.
If you think the above describes you - I'd love to hear from you :) Also on KIK ~ BAC.82 .. Good luck fishing