About Heather
artist. musician. counselor. lover of philosophy and science. outdoor enthusiast. entrepreneur. gym-a-holic.
As many times as I have tried to stop, I still bite my nails after 25 years. I have "toe thumbs" (google them if you wish!). I hit the gym five to six times a week, and bust my ass there every day. While cardio can be great stress-relief, I have to admit that I am mostly a lifter. I love my weight training days, and wish every day of the week could be one. :P I have a few scattered tattoos, all of which are extremely meaningful to me. I'm an artist (both in visual art and in music). I work in Law Enforcement. I am extremely independent; I have a very secure and well-paid job, and have taken care of and supported myself since I was about 16 years old. I coach free bootcamp fitness classes for the public on weekends, to help motivate people to move their bodies, learn proper exercise techniques, and to get healthy. A handful of my clients and I are going to be participating in Tough Mudder this year, and I couldn't be any more excited! Random fact? I'm told by those I am closest to that my eyes change colors with my mood.
I feel that I am on a different page than others my age. I have moved beyond the party, bar, and club phase of my life a long time ago, and honestly enjoy spending time outdoors and at the gym for fun. I am looking for someone who is in the same position as I am in regard to this. I am not opposed to having some fun in that realm occasionally, and do go out for special occasions. However, I enjoy going to wine bars and restaurants now quite a bit more, as opposed to regular bars, clubs, etc.
I am most passionate about helping others. I have worked with at-risk youth for six years now, and love my job and planting the seeds for positive changes they make while I work with them, or that I hope they can make in the future. I am passionate about the arts and expression. I am passionate about the outdoors, as well as health, nutrition, and fitness.
I suppose ultimately, I am looking for that one special person that I have a deep and genuine connection with. Someone kind hearted, honest, genuine, active, and successful or becoming successful in reaching their own personal life goals. I honestly do want to ultimately settle down, but not until I meet that person. It just seems that these days, it is extremely hard to come across the kind of person you really, truly connect with. I suppose maybe that's what comes from living in a small town... Or maybe my generation is just terribly shi**y when it comes to men... lol ;P Kidding (sort of...) (no really, I am I think).
And for those of you who always ask... the businesses I run are both a personal business selling my artwork and curating art shows, and I also run an independent sports health & nutrition company... check it out if you'd like!
www.advocarelifestyle.org
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Simplicity, adventure... maybe a niners game or a giants game ;)
I will go ahead and state here that if you use/do drugs (yes, even marijuana), are on probation or parole, are not an outdoorsy person, are only here for a one night stand, have no goals for yourself, are not independent and financially dependent upon yourself, still go out to the bar and the "club" every night, are not someone to understand the concept of "space" and allowing people to do what they need to when they need to, or aren't active or into fitness in the least... you need not apply. I don't think that two people have to be exactly alike, but there are some fundamental things that are important. I know the kinds of people I get along with, and the kinds of people I can see myself being with. If anything on this list describes you - sorry, but please respect this and move along. It will spare both your time and my own.
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