About Me
What do I like to do?
I have to be honest. My job is very important to me and I love doing it. I feel blessed. The down-side is that it can be very demanding. If I'm not in the office, I tend to prefer spending time at home. Snuggles, a movie, and gorging on delicious food (prepared or delivered) rank high on my list. I enjoy quiet drinks in a pub where the conversation is intriguing and full of laughs and late-night movies are always good. I am definitely a fan of strolls in the park and hanging out at the beach but if you expect me to do the Grouse Grind or jump on a mountain bike to slash through the back-country you'll likely be disappointed.
Live theatre rocks.. especially if it comes with laughter. Anything is better with a laugh. In fact, I'm pretty much down for doing anything and hanging out with anybody if it brings a smile to my face.
What am I looking for?
I am NOT looking for a passenger. You must have your goals and be working towards them. You must be independent, outgoing, capable of having a laugh (I'm a serious guy but I do act like a bit of a loser in my own home. I sing a lot of nonsense. I dance to beats in my own head).
I am looking for a girl I am physically attracted to. I don't think that's shallow, I think it's a requirement.
If your profile is full of spelling/grammar mistakes and you are incapable of conveying your thoughts I am likely uninterested. You must be easy-going but focused on whatever your passion is.
Admittedly, you must be comfortable with intimacy. I don't expect to tear clothes off on a first date but, ultimately, it matters.
A connection, spark, flame that is reciprocal. Have to be honest, the sexiest thing about a girl is when you can look her in the eyes and see how much she cares about you. I miss that. Had it once. I want to want you. But, just as important, I want you to want me too. (It sounds so easy, doesn't it?)
What about the future?
I absolutely want to find a woman that fulfills everything I could imagine. I want to spend the rest of my life doting (Not dotting and I didn't misspell dating) over her and our kids. I don't really enjoy dating without a purpose. I don't get it. But, I realize it is necessary to find that spark.
First Date
Patio drinks at dusk over-looking the city or the sea. I would want a place to chat to see if we enjoy each others company, are capable of chatting, connect at a level more than physical (because we wouldn't be there if we didn't think the other was attractive). There, hopefully, would be a lot of time for go-karts, road-trips, exotic beaches, nights on the town (that are painful the next morning), and cuddling on the couch. But, it has to start somewhere. So, about that patio?
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