I am an energetic professional with a strong work ethic but I recognize that balance in life is the key to happiness. In the past, I spent too much of my time life working. Today, I am more interested in spending time with a woman who loves life and hopefully has some similar interests and values. I am looking to meet a friend and soul mate -- someone who appreciates me for who I am and what I stand for.
I grew up in the Midwest -- actually on a horse farm in Wisconsin and then in Chicago after college at USC. I came out to California for college and fell in love with the area and the weather, I've also lived in NYC and have traveled fairly extensively in the U.S.
I like to spend time with friends and family, but hanging out with the woman in my life is most important. I enjoy movies, golf, tennis, working out, snow and water skiing (barefooting), hiking, racquetball, socializing, reading, snorkeling – anything with some adventure. While I like to go out and be social, I am not a bit partier or drinker. I also do a fair amount of volunteer work which I find very rewarding.
I hope to find a woman that has many of the same or similar interests, a perfect match is not necessarily a clone. I like to do a lot of things together, but respect individuality. The top of the list for me in terms of attraction is a kind personality and above average intelligence.
Other things that I very much value in a companion: passion, compassion, kindness, humility, empathy and honesty. I hope to reciprocate with strong presence in these with these same qualities. I consider myself to be very kind, courteous, loyal and respectful and am looking for the same. I am not perfect, but am always trying to be a better person to those around me. I have much respect for others. While I have a lot of confidence in my own abilities, I do my best to maintain a strong sense of humility. I like to think that I have character and morals and take a stand for what is right.
Financially, I am very secure, but I am not overly materialistic. I like nice things, but this is not a major concern for me and hopefully not for you.
I think the first date is always a tough one because of the many challenges in each person trying to be themselves and feel comfortable doing so.
The best environment is generally a casual, neutral environment, with not too many distractions.
I think a casual dinner is the best situation for the first meeting, but coffee or drinks is also fine with me.
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