Brains and brawn. Good career with a healthy and active lifestyle. Be yourself and communicate with honest sincerity. No time for games. No time for serial daters or disingenuous women. Life is a journey and an opportunity to learn and grow. It is said that it is a journey best shared with that right person, and lived with passion and purpose.
There is something to be said about first dates and meet-n-greetings, as they are something to be decided upon with the individual. I am a pretty relaxed and casual person, and coffee or even a light meal would be okay (or perhaps a bevie). When the time comes to decide, it is a question of mutual preference.