Well I am a bigger female who is half German and half Hispanic. Born in Cali, but grew up in Europe. I am smart, outgoing, open minded and affectionate. I do have a sense of humor and I love to laugh. I can be loyal and truthful to a fault. I absolutly hate drama and liars. I like going out and having a good time, but I also have days when I like doing something quiet. I have a beautiful little girl who is my world and she comes first, but I have a big heart with room for the right person. If you have any questions then ask, I don't have much to hide.
I absolutely love going to the ocean, or just about any where there is water and nature. I like to be out doing things, going places, and trying new things. There are times that being home is a good thing too. I am open to trying new things and going to new places. I like camping, road trips, driving fast and I am not afraid to get dirty.
I am looking for some one with a sense of humor, who is trust worthy, and dependable. I don't like drugs around me or my child, so if you do them then please don't bother messaging me. Yes that includes pot (i keep getting asked). I am allergic to it and the smell makes me sick. I am NOT looking for a booty call or a FWB. I am looking for a man to spend time with, get to know each other and possibly more. I want to build a future with someone, i have been single for a long time so its time. Who knows what will happen when we get to know each other but I know that I don't want a one night stand kind of guy. Things could start as friends and turn into some thing more. Who knows what will happen, I don't know about any one else but I can't see the future. ;-)
I really can't tolerate liars, cheaters and people pretending to be what they are not. There is no need for it. I have had far too many liars, cheaters and fakes in my life time! If that is who you are then please stay away. I don't lie, I don't cheat and I am respectful. All I ask is the same in return. Why is that so F**king hard to come by?? This is who I am and if you don't like it that is too bad, cause all I can be is me.
People usually say dinner and a movie is a good first date, but how are you suppose to get to know someone sitting quietly in the dark looking at a screen? How about we start things off by going out for drinks, coffee, dinner or something light and fun. I don't think that a first date should be serious, extravagant or expensive. It should just be simple, comfortable, and include laughter, good conversation and companionship.