Please read my profile before contacting me. It is irritating to get messages from people asking me questions that would have already been answered if they had only taken a moment to read first.
Well I am a bigger female who is half German and half Hispanic. Born in Cali, but grew up in Germany. I lived in Vacavilke for many years and now I am living in Fairfield. I am smart, outgoing, and I have a lot of love for my friends and family. I do have a sense of humor and I love to laugh. I can be loyal to a fault. I can also be a little protective. I hate drama.
I grew up around mostly males, so I am not really a "girly" girl, however I am feminine and care about how I look.
I like going out and having a good time, but I
also have days I love being some where quiet. I have a beautiful little girl who is my world. Right now I am full time mom and student. I am currently working on my degree in Criminal Justice. If you have a question, then ask. I don't have much to hide.
When it comes to music I like a little bit of almost every thing, just depends on what I am in the mood for. I don't watch much TV, but when I do I watch Lost girl, some of the CSI shows, NCIS, Bones, some anime, and a few other random shows. I am really not into the reality shows though. I like watching movies on occasion; I prefer Fantasy, Action, Suspense, Horror, and some Sci-Fi. I am just not really into the real stupid movies. I enjoy a good action movie any day. I love to read, it can be almost any thing fantasy, my favorite author is Laurell K. Hamilton. I absolutely love going to the ocean, or just about any where there is water and nature. I have been river rafting and had a blast. I am not much of a home body. I like to be out doing things, going places, and trying new things. There are times that being home is a good thing too. I am open to try new things, and to go to new places. I like camping, driving fast, and I am not afraid to get dirty.
I am looking for some one with a sense of humor, who is trust worthy, and dependable. I don't like drugs around me, so if you do them don't bother messaging me. I am NOT looking for a booty call; right now I am looking for a man to spend time with. Who knows what will happen when we get to know each other but I don't want a one night kind of guy. Things could start as friends and turn into some thing more. I don't know about any one else but I can't see the future. :)
I really can't stand liars and people pretending to be what they are not. There is no need for it. I have had far too many liars and cheaters in my life time, if that is you then stay away. I don't lie and I don't cheat, all I ask is the same in return, why is that so F**king hard to come by?? This is who I am and if you don't like it that is too bad, cause all I can be is me.
So if you have readto the end and want to chat let me know.
People usually say dinner and a movie is a good first date, but how are you to get to know the other person sitting in the dark looking at a screen? Maybe to start things off going out for coffee or dinner would work. I don't think that a first date should be extravagant or expensive. It should just be simple, comfortable, and include conversation.