UPDATE: do not contact if under 35!!!
It's a show, not a tell.. words are meaningless without action..
If you voted for Obama first term, under guise of hopey, hopey, change change. I'll let slide, if you did twice, have to pass: ).. I'm a common sense thinker..
I am very respectful, a total blast to be around, genuine, and don't bs around, I get what I want, by asking first, then being bluntly honest.. I'm not a passive aggressive a hole, that will make your head spin in cirlces.. not how I roll, I'm 38, way past games.. reindeer games, and fun stuff, yes, i'm in. Separate interests are healthy for a couple/dating, however you define being with opposite sex, saying that, putting out what not in my wheel house..
separate interests are great, we will prolly not align, if you are into these things:
Play Xbox more than 10 hours a week
Love comic books
Fascinated by sci fi to the point you'll camp out in line for a ticket or renaissance fares, and actually dress up (taking kids, completely different)
Are a beta male
Have a roommate(s)
Send me an email as you would text.. i.e. wuz up, ur, wyd, it's a first impression, i'll delete, i'm hard like that: )lol, minimal effort.. send me a "hey", if you're attractive, and have interesting profile, you're good: )
I'm a realist, I'm very playful, rarely take myself seriously, unless situation calls, and fun.. that said, I think important to throw out, what some guys might think are deal breakers for them, honesty.. aaaahhh.. nice..
I know many have been mislead with outdated pics.. If you insist, I'll pull a bin laden, and hold up a newspaper with the current date and send you a pic... profile pic taken last month:)
I have been called many things at one time in my life, I probably have a justification for.. never have I been called boring..
I don't date for convenience, meaning, I'm not looking for a free drink or dinner, I only meet if I am truly interested.. I'm very content where I am on the hierarchy and under no urgency for a relationship, I'm under the sense, it happens, when it happens.. Saying that, I am chemistry driven, if I don't feel chemistry on a first, possibly second date, we'll part as friends, I'm always polite..
I am unsure if I will get remarried, or live with someone again.. and I have never lived with someone outside of marriage, I'm not someone that needs to be attached at the hip 24/7, I like the feeling of missing someone, and anticipation of seeing them.. I also like coming home to just my dog.. and silence for an hour after work.. I'm not a time vampire, and won't suck the life out of you, and appreciate the same..
There are MANY things I do like and enjoy, if you'd like to know, send me an email:)..
I have a twisted sense of humor, dry witted, some would say.. I do want someone that "gets" me..
The not having children question.. It is a choice.. I love kids, my niece and nephews, and have dated men with children, and am perfectly happy with that situation.. I don't want to birth babies, I love my career, and my freedom.. any other questions you may have about that, feel free to ask...
I am not hypersensitive, takes a lot to offend me, comfortable in skin..
Can hold a conversation on various topics
Knows the difference between intimacy and intensity
Has a sense of humor
Appreciates separate interests
Any other questions, just ask.. I'm honest to a fault