Honesty, respect, kindness and strength of character are important to me. I'm looking for someone who can stand up to me and keep up with my wit. I'd like a partner who is confident enough to take the lead while also knowing when he can learn from others. Confidence is sexier than leopard print underwear... Intelligence and sense of humor are a must. The aforementioned underwear, optional.
I'd like a strong man who doesn't have to bark or posture and is confident enough that he knows kindness is a sign of strength, not weakness. Your character means so much more to me than the car you drive, the job you have or the money you make. Those things are nice and can indicate hard work etc, but I prefer that a man's actions do his talking. If you're obsessed with how much money you have we won't be a good match (regardless if it's a lot or a little). I've also discovered that I prefer people who are interested in the world around them and how things work. Reliability and follow through are important to me.
P.S. My suggestive sense of humor doesn't indicate a lack of morals or respect. I expect the same in return. I've found that I don't get along well with heavy drinkers or smokers.