I'm looking for chemistry with someone who will eventually become my best friend. I'm real. No games & No BS. I'm an awesome dad to 2 beautiful girls, 19 & 8. They're my inspiration, and we love to have fun! I share 50/50 custody of my little one, and there's no drama with my ex. If you have young children, great! I'm all about family fun!! If not, no worries. All I ask is that you accept and respect mine in our relationship. As a father to 2 girls, one of which is now a young woman, I don't sleep around and I'm not a serial dater. It wouldn't be right if they saw a revolving door of dads dates.
I was married for 18 years, been divorced for 4. My choice. Trust me, I'm over it. I'm happy and content with my life, financially stable and ready to build a relationship on a solid foundation of friendship, trust, honesty and respect. I'd like to meet someone who shares the same family values and at least some of the same interests, like off road racing (I sponsor and pit for a winning team!), riding our quads & dirt bikes in the desert, picnics & bbq's with friends, camping, boating at the river, going to water parks, rodeos, going shopping (I have 2 girls, duh!), doing arts & crafts projects with my kids, strolling through antique shops & swap meets, taking trips to Vegas, Big Bear, Palm Springs & other fun places. There's plenty more, but I'll save it for when we talk.
I believe in god. I give thanks, ask for guidance and pray for safety on my jobs everyday. I look to help others in need and in some way, give back what's given to me.
I'm a retired San Diego County Volunteer FF/EMT. I served 4 years helping others who were having a really bad day. It was the biggest challenge of my life and it helped me become who I am today.
I work... for me. I'm a CA Licensed Contractor. I own several pieces of dirt moving equipment & enjoy playing with my oversize Tonka toys. I like to travel, so I run an Oversize Load Pilot Service too. It's all seasonal work, so I have plenty of time to invest in a relationship.
I like to cook, I clean and I do laundry. You can say I'm Mr. Mom when needed. I'm also mechanically inclined, and I'm handy around the house. I maintain my own equipment and change my own oil. I'll change yours too! If it breaks in the house, I can usually fix it.
I'll open doors, pull out your chair, leave notes in odd places and text you to let you know I'm thinking about you when you least expect it. No ladies, chivalry is NOT dead;)
I'm sexually confident, you should be too. If you have to ask me what that means, chances are we're not gonna be sexually compatible.
I know, my profile doesn't say much about my ideal woman, but it says enough about me to help you decide if you should reel me in and see if I'm a keeper! I'd rather you write and say hi anyway. If we're compatible and we share the same interests, let's talk instead of type. Ask me questions & get to know me. Oh, one more thing... I'm a Gemini, so don't expect to have me pegged after a date or two. It'll take time to figure me out. Give me a chance, and I'll be sure and give you yours as well!
That's it for now. I'm looking forward to meeting someone compatible and getting off this site permanently. Relocation is an option for me, so don't hesitate to send me a message if you think we're compatible. If I'm not your catch, no worries. Just be gentle when you throw me back and good luck fishin'.