I haven't dated in over 24 years so I'm not sure I really remember how. I'm tired of just sitting in the house. I'd like to meet someone just to get out and do things with. If it turns into something long term that's fine. I do smoke and I know alot of people have a problem with that.
Fast update: I've been told my user name makes me sound sad or hurt. Shattered is the name of a song by the Rolling Stones that I grew up with and still listen to. Just a song title, not a life style or state of mind.