IF YOU CANT READ MY PROFILE YOU SHOULDN'T MESSAGE ME!! SERIOUSLY I ASK EVERYONE TO READ THIS ALL BEFORE YOU DO BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE JUST ARE NOT GETTING IT!!!
UPDATED 10/23/12 ---------> I haven't been on here in about a week and a half and I just logged on to having 32 new messages. No exaggeration the truth. I took a break b/c I was feeling overwhelmed and just aggravated at all the messages that were just bologna. Some were just "Hey there" some were perverted and sent nude gross pictures. I am a lady. I'm not into seeing your "member" and no I do not want to hook up. If I met someone off here it would be to date them and/or a relationship. So once again, I will make this as clear as possible. I do not want to hook up. I don't want to see your male genitalia. And since were being so upfront or at least I am, just a tip to some of you, I actually read your profile in its entirety. If there's nothing there and you couldn't even take the time to write anything, I won't take you seriously. I don't need an excuse how you didn't want to waste your time or no one read's it anyways, well I actually do. And one more thing, if you do write on it, it is extremely unattractive to read things like "b*tch's on here only care about looks" "girls on here are stuck up" "f*ck this, f*ck that".. I just won't even finish reading your profile and I won't respond. If you can't take this seriously why should I even talk to you? I've been on here for about 7 months. Met a few people, most were ridiculous and obviously didn't work out. The most common problem being either immaturity and/or just wanting to hook up. There was one success where I actually got into a relationship but it obviously didn't work out as he was very selfish and immature and had some issues. He wants another chance but I don't do well in giving those. We're all adults and if you cant be selfless in a relationship you probably shouldn't be in one.
***PLEASE DONT WASTE MY TIME, IF YOUR JUST LOOKING TO GET LAID OR JUST WANNA HAVE FUN AND BE CASUAL... I AM NOT FOR YOU.
P.S. "HEY THERE"... "HEY"..... "HI BEAUTIFUL" or any variation of those, are not messages!! I will not respond!***
**ADDITIONAL SIDE NOTE**
I GENUINELY WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN CATCH AND KEEP MY ATTENTION AND IM NOT SAYING THAT IN A RUDE WAY BUT I MEAN LIKE SPARK MY INTEREST ATTRACT ME TO THEM MAKE ME WANT TO KEEP TALKING TO AND MESSAGING BACK. IM NOT GONNA DO IT FOR YOU. IF ALL YOU SAY IS HI I WONT SAY ANYTHING BUT HI BACK IF NOTHING AT ALL. I GIVE WHAT I GET. ALSO PLEASE DONT ASK ME A MILLION QUESTIONS THE FIRST MESSAGE. I WANT TO HEAR ABOUT YOU. I ACTUALLY DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT MYSELF. AGH. I SWEAR IM NOT A B*TCH BUT DAMN IT IM SO FRUSTRATED!!
If you're still reading this, Im really quite normal and a lot of fun. But I’m at the point in my life where I would like to meet someone that wants to spend time together and have fun. Someone who has time for a relationship and wants an affectionate and loving person in their life. When I'm with someone, they get my attention and I want theirs.I would like to find someone that can treat me with respect and honesty. A person that takes the time to get to know me and makes me a priority. I would like to find the kind of person your always happy to be around and you get excited to see them when they walk into the room. I also love to laugh and at times can be a silly girl so someone who enjoys being around someone who's mature but knows how to have fun then I might be right for you.
FYI: My phone App is always on, but doesn't mean I am, so im not really always online. I get a lot of messages and its hard to keep up, so when I have time I check, please be patient with me if I don't respond right away.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My idea of a date is the guy picking the girl up, opening the door for her. Going out and having a good time and walking her to the door and (maybe) a kiss on the front porch, but if I'm not comfortable you should be happy with a warm embrace (that means hug for the pervs). Seriously I refuse to believe there are no gentlemen left in the world. The regular thing is fine, dinner & something after, but fun things where I can be my quirky self are always cool. Like for instance, anything to do with music, concert or a show, mini golf or late-night bowling or anything creative. I'm super easy going and I can honestly say I can have fun doing anything, but I appreciate a guy who can plan things and come up with ideas by himself. I've always been the decision maker in life and work and for once I don't want to have to. I'd like you to have a mind of your own but be considerate of what I like or want. I like confidence but not too much. I prefer a humble kind individual. I guess I seek the fairy-tale that I keep being told does not exist. First date, should definitely be an environment where at some point in the date we can talk and get to know each other, that's important obviously, It's the first date. Do not take me to a club on our first date!!