Well I will start with the fact that I am very silly person, I like to laugh, make others laugh and have a good time, however I work hard so I get to play hard as well. I am looking for someone NOT to HOOK UP with, but I am looking for someone enjoys spending time hanging out, and doing things that we share in common and see where that leads us. I have been divorced for almost 2 year and have learned that if you don't have anything in common then there is not point in even attempting to "make it work" Laughter is food for the soul, and my soul was starving in my last relationship... So I am looking to have Laughter in my life and feed that hunger! ;-) I want to spend time with a person that can be silly WITH me and not worry about what others think. A hardworking person that has his life in order..
I like sports, but am not a fanatic, I can go from hiking boots to high heels in less than 30 mins, I enjoy going to movies, plays, concerts, golfing, traveling, and having a great time with friends . I like pretty much most music... I can't say that I like country music, but have a few artists, that I do enjoy. Any outdoor activity is great with me. I really am not one to just sit and do nothing, I pretty much must be going all the time. I love kids, but don't want to be a nanny, or a house keeper, I have raised my kids and have done a pretty good job at it, if I might say so myself, but I have found that kids don't necessarily want to be in the middle of dad trying to build a relationship with someone other than their mom, and Dad, often is so tied to their mom that they have issues letting go.. I want someone that wants to be with me, and not have to look over my shoulder for the ex to be the next Mrs. Ex...
I am a reflection of you.. meaning you get what you give... I am kind, loving, and compassionate... If those are the traits that you put forward then you will recieve those traits in return. Please don't mistake my kindlness for weakness, I am a strong woman that wants and deserves to be adored, and I will giveyo u the same adoration tha you give me... If you want a relationship, say that, if you don't then don't put it on your profile....
The only thing that I am sure of in regards to what I am looking for right now, is that I would like to be friends/companions with the next person I am involved with. The reason that I am currently single is because I have decided that if I have to do everything by myself, then I should either be by myself or find someone that actually enjoys the things that I do.
I knew that my marriage was over when my ex said to me that "Happiness is over rated" NOT IN MY LIFE.. I believe that everyone deserves to be happy if even for a moment. So I guess I am looking for a person to help fill a moment of my life. I don't know if the moment will be an hour, a day, a week, a year or fifty years, but until we actually connect there is no possible way of knowing how long our moment will be.
If the above peaks your interests, please drop me an email, but don't just say,"hi" what is that?!?! That to me is like internet doorbell ditch LOL! And honestly, I don't want to talk via text or chat for weeks only to find that once we meet, we have no connection at all, I would rather talk on the phone or just rip the band aid off and meet in person so that we can either see if there is a connection or not and then we can either move on or move forward. And I am sorry if I sound ****y.. but I have found a lot of "Stinky Fish" while fishing, as I am sure that you all have as well. LOL
"Everyone has the ability of making someone happy, some by entering a room, and others by leaving it.”
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
And for the record, I know that all this crap about a guys ideal date being a romantic dinner, music and a glass of wine by the fire place is just that, CRAP, I know that most guys true ideal date would be for a girl to come over in a teddy with a six pack of his favorite beer and get busy while sports are playing in the background. LOL...So with that said, if you happen to email me just know I am not that girl especially after one email and a request asking for sexy pics. LOL. Let's meet for coffee or a drink and take it from there. :)