I'm honest, loyal, and genuine. I'm extremely polite and courteous (I'm Canadian, after all...). I'm kind, caring, thoughtful, and generous. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm not ashamed of it. Don't mistake this for being passive, a pushover, or not a decision-maker--I'm quite the opposite. I hope you have some or all of these qualities too or it probably won't work out between us.
I've been jumping from thing I want to do to thing I want to do for a long time now, and it's worked really well for me. I've been exceptionally fortunate to have had the opportunities that I've been presented with!
I love experiencing new people/places/things/foods/etc.!!
I like to socialize a fair bit more than many of my friends, but what that's ended up doing is allowing me to have several different great groups of people to do things with.
I like to make people laugh. I like to be made to laugh.
I like spontaneity. Midnight breakfast at a diner? I'm in. Last minute day trip? Yes please! Out of nowhere quiet night in with a movie? Maybe not so exciting...but I love that too.
I spend way, way, way too much time in coffee shops. To be fair, I'm usually doing school work.
I flout a lot of grammar "rules". Style guides are guides, not bibles. (Take that Strunk and White.)
I like to stay fit, and work out at least a little bit every day (going for fit--I don't like the huge meathead look).
I like going out to live performances--music, theatre, etc., they're all fun.
I'm a philosophy (of science) PhD student at Cornell--2 of 6 years left. I'll be a professor [somewhere warm?] eventually.
Before graduate school I spent a few years on a team managing IT security for the Caribbean operations of a bank. Before that I did a BSc in physics, along with some philosophy, at the University of Toronto (where I grew up).
I love photography--and am pretty good at it, if I do say so myself. I just started using Instagram: iansphonephotos
I've been lucky enough to spend time all around North America, and in South America, Europe, Asia, and Australia. I love board games! Like Scrabble/Words With Friends? Let's play! I play guitar--I've played for a long time, but I'm not sure that it shows...
Favorite movie: Magnolia
Runners up: Moulin Rouge, Braveheart, Fight Club, Zoolander, Shrek, Good Will Hunting, Forrest Gump, Princess Bride, When Harry Met Sally
Favorite book: The Idiot
Runners up: Emma, Pride and Prejudice, Chaos: Making a New Science, "Eats, Shoots & Leaves", The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Sherlock Holmes (various), Grapes of Wrath, Harry Potter (yeah yeah)...I don't have the best taste in fiction.
Favorite food: Indian
Runners up: Thai, Mexican, greasy disgusting American
Favorite music: too hard to choose.
Some artists I've rated 4+ stars in iTunes:
Ani DiFranco, Mumford & Sons, Adele, Tom Waits, Chet Baker, BB King, Brandi Carlile, Eric Clapton, Muddy Waters, The Beatles, Tracy Chapman, Etta James, Nina Simone, Regina Spektor, Fugees, Jeff Buckley, Rufus Wainwright, Missy Higgins, Nirvana, Radiohead, Sarah McLachlan (old), Shania Twain (haha), John Prine, Arvo Part, Ben Harper, Carla Bruni, Coldplay, Dvorak, Ella Fitzgerald, Fiona Apple, Gwen Stefani, John Mayer, Joni Mitchell, K-OS, Ladysmith Black Mambazo, Lauryn Hill, Led Zeppelin, Moby, Mozart, Norah Jones, Pearl Jam, Yo-yo Ma...
I'm looking for, ideally, something long term. Hopefully with someone that I can go out with and have a good time doing whatever strikes us as fun that day. Maybe go walking or swimming somewhere, go for coffee or dinner, see a movie, watch a movie at home, play games, go to the gym, go to a park, go to the theater, go to a museum or gallery--whatever. I'm easy!