SHOW ME A MAN THAT DOESN'T .......
-have self confidence
-respect (self or anyone for that matter)
-date me for a fetish/fantasy/bucket list
-think I'm desperate because I'm a big gal
-forget what manners/courtesy is
-take life too seriously
-work wayyyyy too much
-think about themselves only
-accept that sometimes in dating, it just won't work
-let me do all the planning for outings/dates
-hate their job
-care what others think
-make texting their #1 way of communicating
-want to be with me and/or marry a woman for a greencard
-complain about their struggle
-know the meaning of romance and intimacy
-put effort into making any relationship work
-act like the victim
-know how to be a good strong man, but say they want a good strong woman
-say, I don't see color (I'm a black woman, that won't change, your family/friends not liking that, not my problem).
Some guys might think this is quite negative, I tried stating what I want, that didnt work, so I'm trying something different. No one is perfect, I'm not expecting perfection, as I am not, but i know what I want and need. Anyway a MAN would just know........(mic dropped).
Happy Dating/Searching !!!!!!
Strong, sweet, independent, kind(don't confuse my kindness for weakness), plus sized woman (don't confuse that for low self esteem and desperation) love to laugh, loyal, caring, fun, spontaneous, passionate, loves traveling (from day trips to international vacations), movies, museums, cultural events, and open to trying something new (groupon helps with that). I'm content with life and looking for someone special to build something breathtaking.
P.S. I'm not looking to rush into a relationship and friendship is a a great foundation.
Let's talk, pick a place/time to meet, go from there.