If you can't string a coherent sentence together, please do not contact me. It makes my head hurt trying to decipher some of the messages I get.
IF YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR SEX, PLEASE DON'T BOTHER CONTACTING ME. IF YOU'RE SOME GUY STILL TRYING TO "FIND YOURSELF" AND DON'T YET HAVE IT "TOGETHER", PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MESSAGING ME. Don't waste either of our times, PLEASE!
I'm actually a very open-minded person. I love to travel when I have the time to do so. My musical tastes are varied. I'm what I like to call an "urban nerd". I love to read, visit historic sites and museums, attend concerts, and try new restaurants.
I prefer that people are honest and upfront with me even if what they feel, say, or do ultimately hurts me. I mean, who wants to be surrounded by people they cannot trust? I'm a plus-sized woman and I accept and love myself so I refuse to tolerate people around me being fake, inconsistent, or disrespectful.
I prefer to spend my time with simple, self-respecting guys (I'm a country girl from a small town). Money, clothes, nor cars impress me. What's in a man's heart is more important than what he can buy me. A guy must be respectful and honest, be able to hold a decent conversation, and be working toward his goals in life. If the guy can cook, then that's a definite plus. Finally, a guy must not be afraid to be a MAN. Nothing disgusts me more than a male who doesn't have the courage to face his faults and responsibilities.
Reasons I may ignore your messages:
You are too old
You are too young
You have no photo of yourself on your profile
You don't live in my area
You aren't my type(s)
You have a private profile
You're in a relationship/married/engaged
You look unkempt (clothes and/or hair)
Your pick-up lines are weak
You're way too intense for somebody I don't know/never met
You clearly posted a jail photo as your profile picture
You can't string a coherent sentence together
I'm just not interested
P.S. I'm not all that, but I DO have some standards.
Looking for great conversation, first and foremost....
Ideally, a first date would consist of good conversation and possibly dinner. Hmmm....I have to think about this one a little more....
Maybe fishing? I'm a beginner at it, I can't swim, but, like bowling, I'm not good at it though I enjoy it.
Wandering around downtown Austin? I hear there are bats somewhere....and food trucks.
Meet up at the gym? Let's face it: I'm a big girl. But I'm definitely willing to work out regularly if I have an athletic workout partner that will help me get into better shape. Yes, I'm serious. LOL!