I am not very good at describing myself, however I can tell you what I'm about and what I am looking for. Like my headline says, I'm looking for first a friend & hopefully will find a lover in that person.I love to have a good time, be it traveling or just hanging out. I love to laugh!I am open to new things. I have 4 grown children.I work daily,but am looking forward to some fun.. Not into head games! No extra baggage. I dont want a perfect person,I just want someone to act silly with,someone who treats me well and loves being with me more than anything... Dont say your looking to date if you are only looking to hook up.