"Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other's achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain. " ~ Fred Rogers
Sometimes I can't believe everything I've been through on this website in my search for love. I heard this song tonight & it reminded me of the POF Roller Coaster. One minute everything is wonderful & the next it's all gone. I think you also get to a certain age & are even more determined to find someone who will be good to you. Treat you with respect, that you deserve. That really shouldn't be so difficult, should it? But I can't give up! No matter how many heart breaks, I have to find him... find you!
A prisoner of your love
Entangled in your web
Hot whispers in the night
I'm captured by your spell
Oh yes I'm touched by this show of emotion
Should I be fractured by your lack of devotion
Should I, should I?
You better be good to me
That's how it's gotta be now
Cause I don't have no use
For what you loosely call the truth
You better be good to me
~ Tina Turner
And for a laugh: http://youtu.be/4LvMeYEwWGQ?t=40s
As to my mate, usually the very first thing I'm drawn to is a man's personality. You don't need to entertain me, but rather I'd like our personalities to feed off one another. I love stinkers and being picked on. (in a loving way of course)
I'm not a materialistic person. I could care less if you drive a nice car or how much money you make. I just want to know that you're happy. If you're not, then I would encourage you to follow your dreams, whatever they might be.
The most important thing to me is to find YOU! You may wonder if I want kids. The easiest way to explain it, is that I want kids in my life. If you already have them, that's great! If you want them, that's great! If you want to be a foster parent or adopt, that's great! I don't feel that I have to have my own biological kids. I will be extremely happy with whatever I am given in this life. So kids are just a bonus... but again, my most important goal is to find YOU.
I love to travel and experience other cultures. I would want for the man in my life to be adventurous and try new places and things. If you feel no desire to leave the state of Wisconsin, then you're probably not for me.
I am color blind in regards to people. I want to find someone who is open minded, treats people with respect and knows without a shadow of a doubt that everyone on this earth is equal to each other.
I'm looking to be with someone who is a gentleman (doesn't ask or talk about inappropriate things prior to meeting for the first time), is affectionate, will open up and is secure with who they are. Communication is key! At the end of the day, the bottom line is that I want someone who accepts me just as I am (which I'll do for you), makes me feel good about myself, is supportive, has a good heart and can make me laugh. I'm just like anyone else. I want to find that someone who makes me believe that anything is possible.
Oh and lastly... it would be really nice if you didn't have a wife or a girlfriend. Sorry, but Three's a Crowd! I know, I know... I'm so demanding!
Can't wait to meet you!
I know this might sound strange... but I go on every First date with the intention that it could be my Last. My Last FIRST date that is. I'm always a hopeful, optimistic person when it comes to finding "HIM". With that said, I don't care what we do on our first date, when the chemistry is right, we'll make our own fun!