First let me say I do not live in San Jose, but Monterey CA. I am willing to travel and am honestly putting an effort into finding a serious relationship. With that being said here are my no-no's
1) Do not contact me if you want to play email/message tag.
2) If you are not serious or looking for a relationship. I am not looking for a hookup! Oh and those of you "separated" or any status besides single, please stay away.
3) Most importantly if you are unrealistic....please do not come this way.
Understand I am not negative...I just miss love. I miss butterflies, cuddles and kisses. That feeling that you can't wait to call that person, and you think of them every moment you are awake. I'm not being a sap, I just want something meaningful. High school giggles and remembering the first everything...where did that all go when we became grown-ups?
I am a military working female who is assertive and aggressive. When i go for something, I hold nothing back. I do have standards and although I want love, I won't settle for anything. I am mainly attracted to fit, tall, caucasian men. Not to say I'm not open to other races. I'm looking for someone who actually wants to put in effort in making something.
Just say hi....
First dates are not written in stone but the goal should be to talk and see where each person is and how they feel. I like cool, calm, and, casual.