**UPDATE POF has a glitch in their system and many men are getting MUTUAL MATCH messages or MEET ME messages and this is NOT in my control, The downside is that I might want to hit MEET ME but now discouraged too because of this problem. IF you live in NYC and like my profile just send me a message, unfortunately POF notification system is NOT reliable. THANKS!
MY ACCOUNT WAS HACKED June 15th 2015
My profile info was changed and fake pics were posted.
Uggggg Uggggg Uggggg
pissed that my account was hacked
A lil about me & what Im looking for...
Looking for one special man to share my life with, share new experiences and enjoy each others company, a monogamous LTR.
My 4-5 yr goal is to live between NYC & Santa Monica seasonally, April-Oct NYC & Nov-March Santa Monica... Of course this is flexible depending on my partner in crime, but it is my dream.... and to travel all over the world.
Love is important but equally important is being in lust with each other, not just physically& sexually, but mentally, craving to enjoy each others company and make memories.
(found my original profile)...
Busy professional with curves, if you like a curvy woman keep reading...
looking for a LTR, but most interested in finding one man to share life with, not looking for marriage, at least not for the next 4yrs or so(flexible), I want someone who wants to have new experiences and be adventurous. Love fine dinning, travel, and laughing. Travel, food, and sex are at the top of the list, incorporate those three with a wonderful man and Im in heaven! If I could find a 'special' workout partner would be ideal.
Im a San Francisco native, Ive been living in NY 7yrs now(love it!)except winter not so much (:
Most of all I want to be in lust with each other, to be desired, and always excited to experience each others energy!.
**Lust for me is not only sexual, but it is the chemistry/attraction the craving of being in each others company, laughing together, stimulating conversation, humor is very important part of attraction for me, it is also the little romantic things like cuddling, holding hands, walking together, kissing, looking into each others eyes, sitting under the stars finding constellations, and much, much more... men if you are short on ideas of your own on how to be romantic get a book called 'Light Her Fire' by Ellen Kreidman for lots of tips and tricks to get your romantic side fired up!
Im a hopeless romantic at heart, Im a woman with undying passion and zeal for life, looking for the same. Im the woman that craves chivalry and admires a man that naturally opens the door, I like being respected for my independence, recognized for my strengths & loves a man that acknowledges my femininity, the best feeling is to be treated in a gentlemanly manner.
Geography matters, if you live outside of NYC or Long Island or farther than a realistic 20mins travel, You must be willing to make necessary arrangements for us to see each other often. I prefer to be in a relationship with someone that lives close by. Distance can be a relationship killer.
I have 3 children, 2 are in college and live on their own and one teen at home.
MUST have photos posted in your profile, Do NOT contact me without current & clear pics of You.
I hate smoke & will not date a smoker. Most everything is flexible with the right partner in crime, except smoking, drugs or excessive drinking. I prefer someone that enjoys the natural state of mind & body.
A guy who looks and doesn't say anything is saying something, if you see something positive say something positive or hit the meet me button or favorite... HAPPY PHISHING!
My idea of an amazing first date...
An exquisite dinner, great conversation, flirting, lots of chemistry, laughing, getting to know each others interest and likes, a little touchy feely, sitting close, sharing dessert, watch the sunset on the beach and sit under the stars and have a first kiss, slowly leading to more, hit the jacuzzi, and have a night cap...