Doesn't seem like a tall order but damn is it hard to find - at least in a reasonably attractive package containing a functioning (and compatible) mind and heart.
If there is anything I am, it is honest. The way I see it, the more you know about me and vice versa, the better we can treat each other. So I prize honesty with a tactful approach - unless we can both get a good laugh out of it, then tact is out the window. :P I often express myself through sarcasm and dark humor. Some people dig it but some don't, so for the sake of appearing "normal" (and avoiding bail / attorney fees) I usually just keep it to myself. It's probably safer this way. I hope maybe one day swapping zingers with a gallant, like-minded counterpart.
I dig connecting with someone on a deeper level. It's been a while but I used to love karaoke, Hawks games and demolition derbies. I'm over the bar scene and drinking but I do kinda miss checking out bands. I would say I can get into all kinds of music even though I think I'll always be partial to the long gone good old days of classic rock and metal. But maybe I peaked in junior high school.
I'm most comfortable in a Tshirt and jeans but I can tolerate dressing up when I have to. I appreciate nice things but could care less about money, status or social trends. It generally seems like the more someone has, the less of a soul they have. So if I had a choice, I would rather just be happy.
In the long run I am interested in a LTR but I would be perfectly content just to make a damn good friend. I'm not into games or competing for someone's attention; it's either there or it isn't. So let's find each other first and see how it goes.
Some place conducive to talking, getting to know each other, sharing stories and experiences first. Dinner, coffee, something lame like that. Then? To the moon if we're lucky.