Doesn't seem like a tall order but damn is it hard to find! At least in a reasonably attractive package that contains a functioning (and compatible) mind and heart it is. So I'm waiting for that - and the ever-elusive spark.
If there is anything I am, it is honest. The way I see it, the more you know about me (and vice versa) the better we are able to treat each other. You know?
So I prize honesty with a tactful approach. Unless, we both can get a good laugh out of it - then tact is out the window. :P
I often express myself with sarcasm and dark humor. Some people dig it but some don't, so for the sake of appearing "normal" (and avoiding bail / attorney fees) I usually just keep it all to myself. It's probably safer this way. But one day I hope to swap zingers with a gallant, like-minded counterpart.
I dig connecting with someone on a deeper level. I love sharing stories and just enjoying the time together. It's been a while but I used to love karaoke, Hawks games and demolition derbies. I'm over the bar scene and drinking but I do kinda miss concerts. I can get into all kinds of music although I think I'll always be partial to the long gone good old days of classic rock and metal. (But maybe I peaked in junior high school.) o_O
I'm most comfortable in a Tshirt and jeans but I can tolerate dressing up when I have to. I appreciate nice things but could care less about money, status or social trends. It generally seems like the more someone has, the less of a soul they have. So if I had a choice, I would rather just be happy.
In the long run I am interested in a LTR but I would be perfectly content to just make a damn good friend. I'm not into games or competing for someone's attention; it's either there or it isn't. So let's find each other and see how it goes.
Some place conducive to talking, getting to know each other, sharing stories and experiences first. Dinner, coffee, something lame like that. Then? To the moon if we're lucky.