Chemistry, communication and reciprocation:
That doesn't seem like a tall order but daamn is it hard to find! Especially in a compatible, reasonably attractive package containing a functioning heart and mind.
So I'm waiting for that.
And the ever-elusive spark.
If there is anything I am, it's honest. The way I see it, the more you know about me (and vice versa) the better we would be able to treat each other.
So I prize honesty with a tactful approach.
Unless we can both get a good laugh out of it - then tact is out the window.
I'm pretty much over the bar scene and drinking. But I love concerts and sometimes miss karaoke, even though I'm waay past my prime singing days.
I'm most comfortable in a tshirt and jeans but tolerate dressing up when I have to.
I can appreciate nice things but could care less about money, status or material things.
If I had my choice of anything I just want to be happy.
What makes me happiest is connecting one-on-one on a deeper level, getting lost in conversation about things that don't even matter. Or enjoying a comfortable silence while driving aimlessly, letting the radio play. Just sharing good times with someone who has a good heart, deep soul and sh!tty sense of humor.
In the long run I am seeking a LTR but would be really glad just to make a new FRIEND (the companion/confidante type, not hookup). Isn't that how it's supposed to start out?
Some place good for talking, getting to know each other, sharing stories and experiences first. Dinner, coffee, drive, something lame like that. Then?
To the moon if we're lucky.