I don't believe in forcing things. We all know that if the connection is there, that connection is going to be felt pretty early on. If it's NOT there, then let's be honest so we can move on. Time, energy and emotion are far too precious to waste on anything that's not going to improve and enhance our lives. Honesty in communication is key. Let's not be afraid to tell it like it is, with respect and courtesy of course.
I am a beautiful, confident, sexy, intelligent, funny and sweet woman. I’m also quite feisty, strong willed, independent and sometimes stubborn. I’m easy going, open minded, I see the grey in between the black and white in most situations. I’m passionate, emotionally driven and a fierce lover. I’m outspoken and direct and I say what I need to say, which is not something that everyone can appreciate.
I'm don't consider myself "curvy". I think that term is subject to way too much interpretation. After all, "curvy" could just mean a woman who has big tatas and lots of junk in the trunk. I'm a big woman. Plain and simple. Not every man's cup of tea, which is fine because I have my personal physical preferences in men as well. Just know that I'm not desperate. I have my standards just like I am sure you do. We should all have standards in regards to whom we allow into our lives. I don't settle and I'm not going to allow anyone to feel like they are "settling" for me either.
Getting to know someone on the inside can either enhance a person's physical appearance or it can quite frankly, make a person hideous. So, the way someone looks is not the top priority for me. With that being said, some sort of physical attraction has to be there to start.
I'm looking for a relationship that can build. I'm not interested in random hook-ups or sexual encounters. If there is absolutely nowhere for things to progress to, even if that progression is slow, then I'm not interested. Basically, don't contact me if you're just looking to get your pecker wet. If that's what you're looking for, then "today is not the day and I am not the one" LOL.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)