Definition of decency: treating everybody including the humans you don't know with the same courtesy and respect and care that you would like to be treated by others!
I am mature and hard working professional who is looking for a life partner. I have many interests aside my professional career that range from plays, to opera, to live concerts among many music events, to travel to cooking and photography to painting to collecting stamps… my ideal career would probably be Samantha Brown or Anthony Bourdain’ jobs if I could just chose: travel and cook and share my experience for living/paycheck: heaven on earth… but sadly not all of us are as blessed so I tend to try and fit my hobbies and passions into my busy life that pays for those habits and hobbies ? At this stage in my life I am perfectly content without someone in my life then someone who doesn’t share the same values, goals and desires from life and relationship. With that said I am stable financially and emotionally and ready to settle down with the right person who is looking for the same. Given it takes time to determine if that person is right or wrong for you but if the life goals and plans don’t match no matter how much two people have in common and how much chemistry and attraction there is its basically pointless. If you are looking just to kill time or for something casual please don’t waste your own time or mine for that matter since even though I don’t think there is anything wrong with that it’s not something I am interested in.
Btw I can't not put in words how much I dislike flaky people
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that’s it for now but this is only work in progress so far…