SpazzoidStagger: honest & good-natured & down to earth
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Northeastern, South Carolina
53 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Baptist
Caucasian, Libra
SpazzoidStagger wants to find someone to marry.
Some college
Animal Lover
illustration artist + SSDI

being irritated by the dad-gum pc.

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
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Do you drink? No Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Widowed Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Cat Second Language Other

About Me
I'm just simple. Ain't nothing special or fancy about me. I ain't painting a picture here. I know exactly who & what I am. I ain't going to get on here & claim to be someone that I'm not. This is a mighty accurate description. I ain't nothing special. But, I maintain a mindset & behave myself the way I believe ppl ought to be. I do not play little mindgames & I will not associate to any substantial extent with anyone who does. I am not attempting to just "hook up & get busy". That ain't why this profile is here. I am looking for long term. But, I'm in no massive hurry. For a good while now, my time is spent @ home alone drawing & painting & woodworking. My intention going forward @ this stage in my life is to acquire & develop / groom & maintain up-to 2 acres of raw rural land & construct a self-designed & self-built earthbag earthship@ about 485sq ft that is easily built for less than $15k & is very energy efficient & is heated by a fireplace & cooled with a window AC. Of course the two cats & the two goats & the ten chickens will all have their own comfortable & seperate space to happily occupy on that property. That & my on-going desire & intention to remain obedient to the Lord is the driving force that motivates me going forward in life. I'm workin on it & this effort is daily producing good results. I love all animals. I prefer handlebars instead of steering wheels. I don't have a car ... (not currently anyway) & don't want the expense and the restrictions & irritation associated with one. But, I can get where ever PDQ & do it @ 75mpg on my bike. I do not drink liquor or do drugs. But, I will enjoy a good cold beer sometimes. A beer or several daily is not me. On a campsite, beer is ah-ight & is standard equipment.

I am a good-natured man with 5 yrs of college & 6 yrs of military & 35 yrs of employment history who places alot of importance on values such as responsibility, honesty, faithfulness, trust & the truth. If she is not on the same page with those values, I will have no interest in & I will not pursue or accept any indepth relationship with her. I would rather be in a cool climate than a warm one. I'd rather be in the mountains than on the beach. I believe that a dog --or any animal-- chained to a tree is wrong. My youth-years (teens & early 20's) which has made me street-wise & has helped to create a well-rounded maturity were wild & radical. I have thourghly seen the darker side of society & yeah, I have a criminal record. A by-product of bein a Obnoxious beer-drinkin idiot teen in the late 70's & the early 80's. But, nothing violent or drug-related & I ain't a convicted felon. I am very aware that it ain't typical to reveal that type of stuff in a forum like this. Now, I want to point out something here: I believe that this is the place where being straight-up & honest & revealing should be the effort. I began this profile (in the introduction-statement) with the term "honest & good natured & down to earth". And, I very early-on include the term "realist". Those claims are the truth. So, if you are looking for a man who has a egotistical mind frame; Or, someone who is narcissistic. Or, someone who is ostentatious & flaunts a "bad boy personality", I ain't your man. I realize that to some ppl it might look like I'm full of myself here. But, I totally ain't. And, I ain't claiming to be a perfect Christian or a great uprite "better than thou" Mr. excellent. And, I ain't ever written so much about myself @ any time or place in all my life. But, if anyone is going to become aware of anything, I must reveal something. And, I'm being extremely revealing & specific & I believe it is important to be as revealing & specific as I am being here; I don't know what else to write here except to include aspects of where I've been in life & who I am now & where I see myself going. And, I ain't in the habit of posting profiles. But, I'm tryin to be comprehensive here. And, I ain't loud & I ain't a coward & I ain't secretive & I won't hide something. In almost all circumstances I would choose light instead of dark. I despise anything that is wicked, hateful or hurtful. I attend church on a regular basis. I pay attention to the word of the Lord & I pay my tithes.

I am a easy-going & peaceful quiet gentle soul. And, I'm happy most of the time. But, if I'm forced into a fight, he will quickly loose. I'm low maintenance & I actually have grown to like hamburger helper & frozen pizza. Even though I can bust up in the kitchen & throw down with a hot plate & a toaster oven & a microwave. I am not controlling & will not be possessive in any relationship as long as I can trust her to be faithful & as long as I know that the trust I have in her is very well placed. I will immediately & completely withdraw from a relationship if @ any point I discover that she is not faithful or trustworthy. I have a severe but manageable neurophysical disability (weak left side) caused by a CVA / "cerebral vascular accident" which occurred on Friday Dec 1st 1989 @ the age of 27 because of a car accident. And, the now 26+ years living with a disability has created a revised perception & outlook of life. Me being neurophysically disabled really ain't no major negative for me as I view it. But, it is a part of me that I absolutely must reveal here. Not revealing it up-front would be a massively slack & negligent omission on my part. And so, it must be & now has been revealed. Nobody can legitimately claim that I was not straight & honest & all-inclusive here. That's the only reason why I feel it's necessary to bring it up. Anyhow, I'm pretty much happy with my overall abilities in this life. I have been improved in many ways because of my disability. It slowed me down & set priorties in proper order. A totally huge blessing! And, I let nothing defeat me & I ain't cripple or UNable. I do what I want to do ... Maintain the house & property that I live on ... mow grass with a push lawnmower ... cut & split & neatly stack firewood. That's fun! 4 real! I'm serious! I enjoy it. And, my ability to think, reason & problemsolve was never adversely impacted by the CVA & it is good to go. And, if me revealing the fact that I am neurophysically disabled scares anyone away; Well, the one thing I will say about that is: "good". It only means that I have accomplished @ least part of what I initially & somewhat painfully set out to do; Which is, to dismiss anyone who believes that those who are disabled are second-rate or useless simply because they have a disability. I have no intention to get involved with anyone like that. And, I treat everyone with kindness & respect (all the time). And, if you will simply be truthful & honest with me, like I will consistently be with you, we will get along fine; And, we will enjoy a loving & long-lasting union. ... At's it ... enough said. Thanks 4 reading & good luck ;-)

First Date
Well, I reckon we could meet for coffee @ a breakfast cafe somewhere to begin with. Ain't that the expected normal? That really ain't my preferred choice for a 1st date. It's a little bit too much "in your face / interview" for me. But, I could deal with it. I would instead, elect to do dinner or a picnick two or four times. And then, I'm thinkin it's time to schedule a camping trip for a weekend in the Smokies of North Carolina near the Blue Ridge Parkway. We can take along a pair of 125cc scooters & helmets that will allow us to talk with eachother while we ride the parkway from Maggie Valley -to- Boone & back in autum about Oct 1st or 10th. If you have ever been in the smokey Mountains when it was raining, you know the feeling that can produce. On a campsite under a large 20'x20' tarp with a case of moosehead on ice & during the afternoon while it's raining is an experience that I have often had & I sometimes catch myself daydreaming about. It's awesome & is something that you will become addicted to & will want to make a habit of doing ;-)

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