So, let's start this off by listing some assertions/conclusions I've come to about online dating, shall we? First off, I've come to the conclusion that women typically set up a profile with no intention of taking it seriously and normally don't respond to anyone in the sea of messages they get. Second, when putting effort into a profile, we generally are wasting our time considering most people judge others at face value or in the case of online dating, their pictures. Lastly, because of these conculsions, I challenge you to prove me wrong by reading my profile, forgetting the pictures, the gimmicks, your already dismal opinion about online dating and really try to consider this as you would potential friendship/relationship...
Blah, I hate filling these thing out. Anyway, I'm a 29 year old I guess you could say geek. I love pop culture references, music of mostly any kind, outdoors and virtually anything else, really. I'm a pretty easy going guy. I'll be completing my associates in social sciences in the spring and hope to continue on for a bachelors in political science. Ultimately, I plan to finish with a doctorate and teach at the college level.
I'm definitely not the 'typical' type of guy. I like to see myself as a gentleman, I will always treat women with respect unless given a reason to dislike a girl, in most cases you just won't ever hear from me again. I'm not into drama and I'm not here looking for a hookup or one night fling. A lot of guys probably use the same wording but you'll find if you decide to meet me that I mean it.
Just as a disclaimer I really don't care about this site very much. The goal is to meet new people and honestly I don't do well with dating sites. I'm giving this a try but I'm not expecting results.
I like to have fun and I'm not afraid to be brutally honest, if you don't like it, you came to the wrong profile. I'm tired of BS and I no longer tolerate it in my life. However if you would enjoy my company and can honestly say that you think you would get along with me, which really isn't that hard, feel free to send me a message.
Well, I guess this would depend on shared interests, wouldn't it? However my ideal first date would be something out of the ordinary and adventurous, maybe go restaraunt hunting and find some small cafe or diner no one has ever heard of and try it out. Hiking would be awesome. Or even plan around some festival neither of us have been to just for the shared experience. I'm also not here for a relationship, as it states above. I will date, but I'm not looking for Mrs. Right, I'm not even looking for Ms. Right Now, I'm looking for friends, activity partners and if something grows from that, so be it.
Also, apparently I need to include deal breakers to stop some of you from sending useless messages (if you're looking for a potential dating experience, anyway). So here:
If you're obviously desperate
If you visibly weigh more than me or obviously don't take care of your body
If you have kids (sorry, but I'm not a second choice father, I don't have kids and don't want to take care of yours)
If you're older than 32 or younger than 20 (although I will make exceptions)
Look, I have standards, you have standards and we're all shallow about what we want. If you meet these criterion, don't bother sending me a message. I won't waste your time, please don't waste mine.