I am a truly amazing guy who was married to an amazing woman who unfortunately passed away from cancer. First I share this simply to explain why I am single There are a lot of guys out there who are divorced because they are cheaters, liars, drunks, lazy, abusive, broke, crazy etc. I am not one of them.
WHO AM I?
As we have already established, yes I am a widow. This is more of a unique situation than just simply being divorced. There are positives for you.
You will never have to worry about me wanting to get back with my wife. Obviously Impossible. I am not bitter over a bad divorce. You will never have to meet my ex who might be a complete ****. I am not broke because all of my money goes to my ex or child support. Also my situation has led me to a much greater understading of how precious life is and to not take it for granted. I try to make the most of every day and find the positive in any situation.
I am a good listener, fun to be around, honest, flexible, compassionate,intelligent, an excellent father, have a good sense of humor, understanding, willing to compromise,financially secure, a good friend, a good kisser, adventuresome. Also for those ladies who like to dance I am currently taking dance lessons to improve my skills. I am a decent dancer now but I want to get to the point where someone would say, Wow that guy is a great dancer!
I enjoy live music, going to the Texans games(Season Ticket Holder), movies, spending time with friends, poker,comedy clubs, eating out, and trying new things just to name a few. Happy to share more. Did I mention music. Love, love, love music. Anything with music I am in.
What am I looking for? We can start with looks.I have dated a lot of beautiful women in my life. However if that is your best quality and you do not have a beautiful heart and mind to go with it then I am not interested. I will tell you that my wifes looks were probably my wifes 8th or 9th best quality. I will glady send you a picture of my wife for those doubters out there. I am looking for a woman who has a heart the size of texas, intelligent, caring, affectionate, mother of the year candidate, has a good sense of humor, adventuresome, likes to try new things, at least willing to put up with foofball, willing to compromise and of course sane.
A few thngs all woman seem to be looking for. Honesty ,doesn't cheat, financially secure.
Honesty: This is want 100% honesty sounds like. Yes, those jeans make your butt look fat, Wear the ohter ones that make your butt look really hot. I was happy to watch the notebook the first time, but NoI don't really want to watch the notebook with you for the 4th time. Most of the really good looking guys our age are still married or are cheaters and users. Here is thing about me. I try really hard to never lie. So if you don't want to hear the real truth then don't ask me because the truth is what you will get.
Cheating: I will simply say this. Too many men and women out there cheat. Of course nobody ever admits to it. I will share something very intimate about my past marriage so that you will know that when I say " I do not cheat" you will know it to be true. My wife had very painful bone cancer plus the many medicines she was on had some unwanted side effects. A combination of these things eventually made it impossible for us to have "relations". The type of woman my wife was, she said to me, I understand that you have needs and it is ok with me for you to take care of those however you need to as long as you always come home to me. I will not hold it against you. I never used that hall pass. I do not cheat.
Financially secure. I have a beatiful house with a huge yard and many other nice things. Most importantly I have no debt! I am very good with money.
I have the means to support you very well. However, if you are a spendaholic I am not interested
I have a true zest for life that most people can't truly relate to. I understand just how precious life is and try to make the most of it everday.
I will make you a promise. If we go out ,you will have fun! There may or may not be a spark. Thats ok. Only one way to find out.
So back to the bold statement I made at the beginning. One of the Best Guys on POF!
You now know me a little better and can judge for yourself.
If I seem like the kind of guy you would like to get to know better then reach out and say hello