I’m strong, independent and sometimes stubborn. I’m humble, real and evolved. My ideal mate would be strong emotionally and intellectually yet compassionate.
I have a 22 year old son who is vaccine injured from when he was a baby and is in a wheelchair for life. He lives in an apartment with a 24 hour assistant. He loves people and thrives in positive environments. I spend as much time with him as I can. He has taught me so many things during his lifetime that I truly believe I’m a better person because of him.
I have a younger son as well who is healthy and somewhat spoiled. His dad and I have 50/50 custody and we remain on good terms for our son. We’ve been divorced for 5 years and want to do what’s best as co-parents.
I’m not a very detail oriented yet look at the big picture when it comes to projects and life. I used to be a lifelong democrat yet have recently changed parties. I think our government is corrupt in so many ways and are slowly stripping us of our constitutional rights. I’ve awakened recently and do not follow the sheep.
I enjoy kayaking, cycling, hiking and dancing. I have completed 2 triathlons much to my surprise. I’ve taken some dance lessons and am open to more. Traveling is something I enjoy and feel lucky that I’ve been able to explore parts of this world so far. There is so much more I would love to see and experience.
I don’t follow mainstream media/news and when I question something, I will do my due diligence to search for the truth. I’m a non-conformist yet I fit in. Talk about an oxymoron. I’m certainly not superficial as my feelings and intellect run deep. Most people like me. Some don’t only because I speak my mind, in a nice way of course. My biggest pleasure is being silly and making people laugh. I know what I want and I will pursue it until it no longer matters or doesn’t fit in my life. I don’t live in the past and have little baggage. My thoughts are consumed with the present and future.
I’ve become a bit of an activist as of late fighting for what I believe in. My biggest dream is to be able to build a complex and house those less fortunate who have a desire to make their lives better. I’m a dreamer for sure.
I’m not looking for someone to take care of my and buy me things. I want a likeminded man who is ready to truly be in a committed partnership without jealousy and drama. I’m strong so you need to be as well. I’m not needy so if you are looking for someone to cater to your every need, then move along.
I’m fun, positive, spiritual, the life of the party and want to make the world a better place.
I look forward to hearing from you if I haven’t scared you off yet.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I prefer to meet for a cup of coffee or a glass of wine to see if we click. If we do, then we'll decide together.