I'm an honest, intelligent, fun-loving woman who loves to learn new things and enjoys all the little pleasures in life. Been dating long enough to realize I enjoy being single and I'm not willing to settle for just any guy. I'm looking for a friend who can understand I need space and have priorities. A few things you should know about me and what I'm looking for:
I like my guys clean cut and I prefer caucasian men. If you look, dress or act even slightly ghetto please don't message me. I won't respond. Also, due to my profession, I'm not interested in dating anyone who has a criminal record, gang affiliation, does drugs, drinks heavily or has a history of domestic violence. I'm also not 420 friendly so if that's your thing I'm not judging, just not interested in associating with you.
My profile states I do not want children. I should probably clarify by saying that I don't want to have any more children of my own but I am very open to my partner having kids.
Sense of humor is a must! I love to laugh and I'm a little bit of a nerd so if you can't laugh at yourself then please don't contact me. I hate drama and games. I can be a bit blunt and up front but I'm tactful and try to keep things classy. That being said, I'm not for the weak of heart or mind. If you're intimidated by smart, confident women then I'm not the girl for you. I'm not a know-it-all and will gladly let you win at Monopoly. I'll dress up, smell delicious and be the perfect little lady in front of your friends...but be advised I have five collegiate degrees, curse like a sailor on occasion and can make even the toughest man blush behind closed doors!
One thing you should know is that I don't put up with any B.S. I truly believe there are "plenty of fish" in the sea and I have no problem walking from any situation that's not mutually beneficial or worthwhile. I feel two people should compliment each other's lives not complicate them. I'm not the type of woman who loves easily but when I do it's golden.
Almost forgot the puppy disclaimer!...I'm an animal lover and have an 80 pound German Shepherd that lives indoors and often travels with me on my days off. You must like dogs and be comfortable with this. I'm not one of those crazy dog people either. I just have one dog that I've invested a lot of time and training in. He'd take a bullet for me so he gets to be part of the family!
Feel free to message if you're interested in getting to know me better. I get a lot of messages but I know what I'm looking for. If I don't respond please don't take it personally...just means I don't think we're a good match.
...and if I message you and you're not interested then happy fishing and I wish you the best of luck! :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I know it sounds cliche' but coffee, tea or drinks at first. Someplace we can actually talk and get to know one another.