Well I thought more people were interested in seeking a real relationship not just looking for a one night stand. I'm looking to find that person who wants to hangout & spend time with one another getting to know more about each other and seeing if there's anything there to work towards.... I don't mind that you have children but would rather they be grown & that you have time for another person in your life.
My idea of 1st date could be anything as long as you can talk & get to know one another. coffee/lunch, a picnic, a stroll around a park, a long drive. I like when my date is open and initiates the conversation, I am shy at 1st but open up easily.